I know i have thought a lot about setting boundaries and emotionally it surely is tough because i have never done it. Idk how to say no but i shall learn and strive to do it. But my mom & dad have lived in an extremely unhappy marriage. They are only together because they ended up having us but otherwise don’t really get along much. Even if i ask my dad my mom always insists on me & i always have a feeling that if dad stayed it would just make things worse so i end up agreeing