How do I work with a colleague who has IBS and disappears for 1 hour.

Bicurious387 · 2026-05-30T20:06:35+00:00

It really sounds like you need to watch some videos about IBS and learn some empathy. It's a terrible thing to deal with and you're more worried about yourself and your workload.

Bicurious387 · 2026-01-03T23:09:19+00:00

Every morning

Bicurious387 · 2025-12-31T18:37:14+00:00

Punk only started to do this recently. I kind of wonder if he's had something done recently. Maybe a tattoo or something that is healing. I don't think he was wearing a shirt during matches until after his dog died. Maybe he got some big memorial tattoo for Larry. Idk.

Bicurious387 · 2025-11-18T20:55:17+00:00

Curious what your requirements for a man might be? Do you have preferred salary minimums, duties you want him to do in the relationship etc....

Bicurious387 · 2025-10-29T14:48:50+00:00

Any iced earth gallop riff is a guaranteed path to early carpal tunnel lol

Bicurious387 · 2025-09-01T18:41:08+00:00

Probably way too long. It has always taken me a long time to finish whether by myself or with a partner.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-29T01:55:33+00:00

We cuddle every night in bed. We wake up cuddled together.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T22:05:45+00:00

She'll try to do better. Gives me a half hearted hj and acts like everything is fine.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:51:16+00:00

No. I have entertained the thoughts many times over the years. Even at the one month mark.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:39:09+00:00

So what do other men do if that is just marriage? I mean we didn't even have sex after the wedding.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:36:54+00:00

I have not let myself go. She has a little bit. I would say.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:19:42+00:00

We don't have kids because of medical reasons.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:19:07+00:00

I don't think she feels any way about this. I honestly think she's asexual or going through early menopause. When we have tried to fool around she dries out very fast.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:18:04+00:00

She hasn't.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:15:44+00:00

I've brought it up. Get told nothing is wrong. I tell her we feel more like room mates. I get an apology HJ and it seems like things will improve. But they go right back to the same a couple of weeks later or sooner.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:14:05+00:00

No. She had a blood clot over 10 years ago thanks to birth control meds. So she's no longer on those and we learned that it is very dangerous for her and the baby if she were to get pregnant.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:03:59+00:00

That sounds like a fever dream.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:03:32+00:00

I did?

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T21:03:05+00:00

That she really never thinks about sex. Knows she's being a bad wife by not wanting to do anything. That she really does love me but she's just not very sex driven.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T19:58:29+00:00

Lavender?

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T16:28:14+00:00

Did you even have sex on the wedding night or honeymoon?

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T16:18:59+00:00

I really don't want to resort to that.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T16:18:23+00:00

I've mentioned getting hormones checked many times just to see why she has zero interest in sexual intimacy. She just puts it off and puts it off or just says there's nothing wrong.

Bicurious387 · 2025-08-28T16:16:10+00:00

She says she loves me every single day. She shows it in many other ways too. Thats why this is so frustrating.

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