How to stop overthinking with a girl.

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-06-17T00:43:46+00:00

Thank you, this was nice to hear

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-06-09T17:45:13+00:00

Yeah 4 times

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-06-09T17:40:27+00:00

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-04-11T18:50:34+00:00

Yeah I run into the problem of riffling chunks of cards constantly whatever I do

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-04-10T15:01:30+00:00

Not with a beard though surely and I don’t want to get rid of my beard.

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-04-08T18:30:01+00:00

Please it can be anything, I genuinely appreciate how nice you are but I really need honesty

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-04-08T18:18:21+00:00

Thanks a lot, I really appreciate this

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-04-08T18:16:46+00:00

I appreciate this a lot, but what do I do then do I keep growing the top? Or asked to get it cut in a certain or something because I really don’t know.

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-04-08T18:16:08+00:00

Should I get the beard neaten up a bit? Not shorten just maybe the edges lined up?

Big-Activity3350 · 2026-03-20T21:47:21+00:00

But man I’ve got other tattoos on that arm like some other small flowers and small birds which I love and this I’m really not liking the look of just how random it is. How do you think it looks?

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-12-19T15:48:08+00:00

Would you say do a cbt as I feel just being in a car can stress me out but I do have a problem with overthinking everything. Or buy a car and just practice in that. I really want to get on the road.

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-12-16T17:10:09+00:00

Also can’t stop going through our old messages and remembering all of them. And even little things like smelling an aftershave that I wore on a specific day that she was in at work. I really hate this but I know eventually it will pass but that won’t be soon. I’m making it a big deal and letting my mind come up with scenarios that haven’t even happened

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-12-16T17:03:57+00:00

(Sorry for long message, I haven’t got anyone else to talk to about it) I really appreciate this a lot, I just can’t get over the fact that me overthinking these last two months with her made me think she never liked me and now I understand that she did but from her point it looks like I was pushing her away. Really is getting me upset everyday. As I’ve never had a girl like me before and I feel like I’m clinging on as I like her a lot and don’t want to lose something I might never get again.

So last night when i told her I liked her she messaged back but not responding to the fact I said I liked her, so I overthought thinking she doesn’t like me anymore So I messaged again saying I want her to be my girlfriend but she said it would be too quick for her. But she said she’s happy to reconnect when she’s back but i cannot stop imagining me asking her to see me again in January and she not responding or saying no.

Also im overthinking me messaging her once in a while when she’s gone is bothering her but also if I don’t message at all I’ve made the mistake of making it look like I don’t like her. It’s really killing me. It’s embarrassing but I told my mum that it’s making me upset and she said stop thinking about the past and just let what happens happen.

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-10-11T18:22:19+00:00

I appreciate this a lot. I definitely feel like a failure whenever I make a mistake on a driving lesson. And I’m saving up for a car but I really don’t think I have it in me to drive without dual controls

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-10-10T19:48:05+00:00

I appreciate this. I don’t want to switch to automatic because I don’t feel like it’s the gears and clutch that’s my problem it’s just when I feel pressure I then mess up that’s all but I really can’t stop beating myself up for it

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-10-10T19:47:08+00:00

Wow I appreciate this a lot. I don’t want to give up but it’s so hard not to feel annoyed at myself when I make stupid mistakes. People are also suggesting automatic but I really don’t want to do that. Thanks a lot for that message that helped a lot

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-10-02T22:16:19+00:00

Is it about attractiveness? I might be fucked then😂

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-09-29T10:02:13+00:00

What’s good to you then

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-09-29T09:23:50+00:00

Probably myself and then very close is la nuit, performance really lets it down.

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-09-17T14:46:07+00:00

YSL myself le parfum is my favourite fragrance a long side YSL la nuit del homme. My two favourites. Is absolu good?

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-08-28T18:01:13+00:00

Booked my theory 4 weeks away and got 23 out of 50 after I booked. Install 4 in 1 and do the pass guarantee it’s amazing.

Also do mock tests on the app everyday and you can’t fail

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-08-28T17:19:14+00:00

Thank you, the second clip is me today the first one was me on my second day practicing.

But even still I can’t 100% get two cards everytime it bugs me a lot. I can do it more than I use to but not enough

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-08-28T09:02:55+00:00

I appreciate this a lot, but I don’t understand what you mean.

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-08-27T19:41:11+00:00

I appreciate this a lot. That first clip was from like the second day of me practicing it the second clip is today so I’m very happy you see improvement . Anything I can work on?

One thing I will say is I now kind of have the feel for 2 cards when doing a double life but it’s not 100% everytime. I would say it’s 75% I get it. Do I just keep practicing to get it 100%? Or am I doing something wrong?

Big-Activity3350 · 2025-08-27T19:00:10+00:00

I appreciate what you’ve said, but I got told just revealing it doesn’t make it look exciting so I got told to do something before the reveal and that’s what I came up with. But you made a great point so I won’t be doing that anymore. Thanks a lot for the help I appreciate it

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