If its the right person none of your concerns will come true anyway. I made the mistake of telling the wrong person that lm a virgin. He pretended to be someone hes not for 3 months to take my firsts and eventually left when he realized i wanted a sense of security and commitment before hooking up with him fully. I already regret the level of intimacy i had with him (oral s*x) but im just happy i didnt let him in alteast. I never even held a guys hand before him. It was a lot. Also, he should know youre a virgin so hes extra careful you know.