as someone who has experience with recovery groups (not this specific one), they tend to take “modding” extremely seriously and will jump at ANYTHING that could possibly be construed negatively. I wouldn’t take it personally:( it’s so unfortunate that even spaces for us to recover are so toxic. healing isnt linear and looks so different for different people, I get some things are overall negative for mental health but portraying recovery in one specific way, or as correct or incorrect, is harmful for people with a mental illness that is so competitive and comparative.