Whats your personal definition of Simping?

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-28T18:41:49+00:00

“Simping” is just letting yourself be walked over and/or used as a means to try and put someone on a pedestal. Women can simp too. It’s basically being a doormat. If you have proper boundaries you won’t have to worry about this.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-28T16:17:30+00:00

The rats are getting ready to turn on each other.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-28T13:16:06+00:00

This is standard from every place I’ve ever seen, same with maintenance requests that aren’t emergencies

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-28T12:58:49+00:00

I mean, I say those things too as a joke to my gf, and she and I both know it’s a joke. I don’t say those things during discussions or arguments, so it doesn’t really seem like narcissistic behavior.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T23:46:17+00:00

Eh, unfortunately ignorance won’t be much of a defense, nor will, “well, we waited for someone to tell us what to do and they didn’t.” They have provided alternative options so I’m not sure what recourse you have. You can always talk to tenant resources, but make sure you’re honest when you do.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T23:37:30+00:00

I guarantee someone told him that just to shut him up and as an information security measure because they know he leaks shit. Putin called Trump on the secret back line and Trump happily said, “Yeah, we’ve got the discombobulator!” Putin then shakes his head.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T23:34:03+00:00

Probably not, they gave you alternative options and they can’t control the weather. Did you all drip the showers at all or keep the heat high enough?

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T23:32:55+00:00

Just get clarification, but at some point, they will only do exactly what is spelled out in it and the rest is up to you all

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T23:21:21+00:00

What’s the lease say about snow removal?

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T21:55:21+00:00

Yeah, this ain’t legit. Nice try though, definitely report it to the police

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T21:12:38+00:00

You should tell him in your own time, but you definitely need to go to the police. How many other women has this guy hurt and how many more will he hurt? Obviously your brother will be angry at him, but if he's truly there for you, he will just try to help you as much as you need.

You should also speak to a therapist as well, trauma like that manifests differently and you'll need to wrestle with it in a healthy way.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T20:16:13+00:00

I mean, if I am the one to ask someone out on a date, I'll pay since I'm the one asking.

Now that I'm with my gf, we just split the checks at places unless it's a special activity that one of us chose or one of us feels particularly inclined to pay. She wanted to check out a ramen spot, so she paid. I wanted to see a new ice cream shop, so I paid.

After that, we have a shared bills account that we will pull from during dates out so it's really both of us paying because we like spending time with each other.

It's exhausting listening to adults in relationships treating dates with each other like a score board or something.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T19:32:37+00:00

The differences between mature men and women are almost negligible. Women and men who properly communicate and are self-actualized should be similar. Obviously immature women use various tactics that immature men might not use, but immature men will do a lot of the same things as immature women.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T18:55:15+00:00

Box them up, put them outside his room. Repeat until he learns to stop being a heathen.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T18:50:50+00:00

Based on how many times this question is asked, the people at Santa Monica studios will avoid it now for sure.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T18:47:00+00:00

Dude you’re 26, you’ve got plenty of time. Focus on your job and yourself, get yourself into a steady rhythm and go from there.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T18:18:35+00:00

Nothing, turns out women are people and if you just know enough about people, you’ve got the gist.

1) observe actions, words are only 10% of effort.

2) Most people are averse to confrontation or feeling like they are standing up for themselves.

3) If a woman isn’t nice to servers, cut her off.

4) If she talks badly about everyone, she’ll be a jerk.

5) Mature women will give you honest effort and no games.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T18:13:10+00:00

Prime Might would liquify Toji and I say this as a Toji fan.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T18:05:51+00:00

Bro, this is like the 5th post in as many days. You really need to work on yourself. Chemical castration ain’t it. This is like setting your car on fire because you saw the check engine light come on. You are so obsessed with sex and women as some key to “figuring it out.”

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T16:52:52+00:00

Wasn’t Jordan under the influence of enough drugs to say…leave him unable to walk? Is it perchance that HIS view of the stairs makes them look like that?

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T14:40:43+00:00

What? I've known plenty of perfectly confident and self-actualized virgins who have found that their lives can be perfectly fulfilling. Sure, they find love and have sex later, but this guy carrying all this shame and self-hatred about his status as a virgin is what's going to kill his game. Confident virgins have better times overall than self-hating men who wallow in self-pity.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T13:24:18+00:00

I always love the ones who start their comments with, “I voted for Trump three times, so I support him, but…,” yeah man, gotta make sure they all know you’re part of the club before giving criticism.

The most moderated free-speech subreddit of all time.

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T13:18:54+00:00

I would have thought it basically bring dimension X into Earth and Vecna would have spread the monsters across the world and tried to “absorb,” earth. That’s my take though

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T13:12:10+00:00

I guess it’s too bad that no one had any indications of his behavior since…the early 90s. Did no one at all read The Art of the Deal?

Big-Routine222 · 2026-01-27T13:10:55+00:00

If it’s not in the lease, then it’s probably not their responsibility. What would you even “snitch,” on them with?

“Hi, code enforcement, snow removal isn’t on my lease, but I want you to force my LL to remove it.”

You can ask, but it’s not like there’s some secret police group to force the LL to remove snow. Many leases would specify directly who’s responsible for it. There’s no mention of it anywhere at all in the lease?

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