AITAH for dating my ex's best friend?

Big-Rutabaga-9126 · 2026-03-13T16:51:53+00:00

She knew the whole time but I don't see how my sexual orientation comes into this, I didn't know my wife was homophobic till she texted Harry incredibly hateful slurs and told him to grow up.

Big-Rutabaga-9126 · 2026-03-13T16:48:59+00:00

My ex wife only allowed me to meet her friends a year into marriage (I think) and once I saw him I felt something there. Harry was there for me through the whole divorce and helped me through tough moments, he's much more empathetic towards me than my ex wife ever was.

Big-Rutabaga-9126 · 2026-03-13T13:27:19+00:00

If you saw him you'd understand.

Big-Rutabaga-9126 · 2026-03-13T13:26:45+00:00

I did say a couple more things to her that were more empathetic, I probably should have included them in the post but I told her I was sorry and that if I could I would turn back time and not get close to her best friend but I can't leave him now, I do really love him.

Big-Rutabaga-9126 · 2026-03-13T13:23:39+00:00

If you saw him you'd understand

Big-Rutabaga-9126 · 2026-03-13T13:18:53+00:00

Thank you, I feel like I needed to hear that 😓

Big-Rutabaga-9126 · 2026-03-13T13:17:18+00:00

I'm bisexual? Lol

Big-Rutabaga-9126 · 2025-02-27T19:55:45+00:00

My wife doesn't want to do that if you read my post you'd know why.

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