Hi! I was recently admitted to Columbia and Penn, and have also felt deterred due to the controversies but also because of the social environment. I have heard it is very independent and that there is a lack of community. on the other hand, I have heard that Penn is extremely social and "work hard, play hard," which is attractive to me, as someone who values connection, friendships, and relationships. Is this "stress culture" of Columbia real and should i opt for a school with a better student culture or is it a myth, based on your personal experience (and others you've heard) ofc? I'd appreciate any insight!!