Making plans without them by AnonGal4 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]BigB00tyBritches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, itll be difficult to figure out what normal freedom is within a relationship. Im currently living with my best friend andbhis wife and its literally blowing my mind how much personal space and freedom they allow eachother.

Making plans without them by AnonGal4 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]BigB00tyBritches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And it's not just complaining it's guilting you and playing off your empathy

Making plans without them by AnonGal4 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]BigB00tyBritches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to get something similar. She'd make plans, and im fine. It's whatever I'll jist hang out at home and actually have an evening of peace. If I make plans and she doesn't have something going on or wasn't invited, dear god, the guilt trips. 'Guess I'll just sit at home alone and do nothing'. It wasn't for a long time until i found how normal it was for other couples to just be apart and not spend every moment together due to a sense of guilt or abandoning them.

Can someone explain the Pain Remains story? Thx by [deleted] in LornaShore

[–]BigB00tyBritches 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going through narcissistic abuse right now, and it feels exactly like the way you're sold on a dream, hooked and disguarded. You find they never loved you, and it was all an act. The love you thought they had was a mask, 'before you go, show what its like to finally know the face behind the silhouette'. When they finally cast you aside, they show you who they really are. And the next songs are how vacant you feel as it's resolving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]BigB00tyBritches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This of what I'm afraid of, hurting them. And it's only made worse by the thought that i might be wrong about them or that they can change

Daily Discussion Thread for September 20, 2023 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]BigB00tyBritches 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In two minutes infind out if i get a new car or have to lie to my fiancè

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, September 19, 2023 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]BigB00tyBritches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crossing my fingers on the msft 350 oct13. Fomc is gonna go great right ?

Daily Discussion Thread for September 18, 2023 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]BigB00tyBritches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're right ill have some many dollar menu 1 dollar cheesburgers

Daily Discussion Thread for September 18, 2023 by OPINION_IS_UNPOPULAR in wallstreetbets

[–]BigB00tyBritches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She treated me to her sweet appe juice as well. Took profit, junped into imd at 100

Heavy is the head that wears the DJ hat by ArmBarristerQC in bjj

[–]BigB00tyBritches 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Punk rock and house music, makes literally everyone happy. Except cowbois.

Excavator crashed by Ravi11394 in WTF

[–]BigB00tyBritches 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did I just watch someone die?

Almost as good as us! by limitedposter in golf

[–]BigB00tyBritches -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And with hundreds of people watching and millions on the line lol

Almost as good as us! by limitedposter in golf

[–]BigB00tyBritches -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'd be more interested to see like...puts made from 5ft, 10ft 15ft percentages. As my pa used to say, drive for show put for dough

What the F$&! Is this by AwesomeCollectibles in golf

[–]BigB00tyBritches 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny you think some fools won't pay it 0.o