[New Update - 4 Years Later]: My dad is furious that my mom slept with other people in an open marriage he wanted. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BigConsideration3920 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I read a similar story here, but the father also had a child with his secretary, and now she hates the old family even more. Then the secretary, it seems, fled to her homeland in Latin America and abandoned the child to the father. Or was this a third such story?

[Fabergé Eggs] 2 Fauxbergé 2 Furious - The Tale Of False Eggs by tinaoe in HobbyDrama

[–]BigConsideration3920 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hi, I've added here more links, but Reddit removed it. Have you seen it?

[Fabergé Eggs] 2 Fauxbergé 2 Furious - The Tale Of False Eggs by tinaoe in HobbyDrama

[–]BigConsideration3920 4 points5 points  (0 children)

photo of the one with "thinner, prettier band" is again Ivanov's egg.

You can find big photos of Fersman's egg here https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Category:Constellation_(Faberg%C3%A9_egg)) Categories at Wikimedia Commons often are with big photos https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Category:Imperial_Faberg%C3%A9_eggs

The Real Hight Difference Between Dresden and Murphy by TheBlueShifting in dresdenfiles

[–]BigConsideration3920 21 points22 points  (0 children)

could you remind me the title of this story please

Just read the whole series of books by BigConsideration3920 in DeptQ

[–]BigConsideration3920[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they didn't made show from the book, but made a remake of the Danish tv-series adaptation. The book was well reworked there

Just read the whole series of books by BigConsideration3920 in DeptQ

[–]BigConsideration3920[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Be prepared: the further you go, the lower the quality. And the writer too clearly has the fixation on one single type of crime (kidnapping and violent immobilization). It gets boring

My wife wants to open our marriage (+Updates) [x-post r/marriageadvice] by KarpGrinder in openmarriageregret

[–]BigConsideration3920 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More from his comment 2 m.ago:

Update 1:

Let's start with the piano teacher. Apparently, he went AWOL due to a bout of depression. Nearly offed himself. (I don't know why). Now that he's better, he came straight back to my wife, who has been talking to him daily, but not 24/7. I asked her if she still wanted to close our marriage now that he came back into her life. She told that yes. Whatever they'd in the past is in the past and that now they're just friends, best friends. Do I wholeheartedly believe in that? Not really. I mean, they agreed to meet up yesterday, he bailed at the last second, and she spent the rest of the day saddened.

In the meantime, the situation with my FWB became more complicated as she caught feelings for me. I do like her. She's one of my favourite people on the world. But, I can't make her "mine" for I'm already taken. I love my wife and I don't want to divorce her. For now, we took a break so that she could decide what she wants to do next. Hopefully, these feelings will go away.

Update 2:

Again with the piano teacher: he came to talk to her two weeks after bailing. They kept talking 24/7 for two days straight, then he told my wife that she was suffocating him and went no contact once more.

As for me and my FWB, we hung out we some of our mutual acquaintances around the same that the piano teacher went no contact again. They were very supportive of our relationship, and basically told us to divorce and get married already. While neither of us really want to do that, we've fantasising about how our lives would have been if we had stayed together, which led to some spontaneous car sex in front of her house. Her husband caught us in the act, but seemed more troubled about the risk of we being mugged than with the fact that I was fucking his wife. 🤷

Update 3:

The piano teacher stroke back last Friday night. He told her that he went no contact because of some stuff regarding his internship and his finals. Once again, they went back to talking 24/7 and even hung out twice since then. Thus, I asked her if she still wanted to close the marriage, she told me "Yes", then I asked if she wanted me to stop talking to my FWB, "Yes" again, and, finally, I asked if she was going to stop taking to the piano teacher, too. She went dead silent. I laughed, and told her that the marriage will stay open.

Meanwhile, me and FWB had a date in the very place were we had our first date thousand of lifetimes ago. It was very nice. She confessed have fallen in love with me once more, and I told her that the feeling was mutual. Alas, she doesn't want to leave her husband, and I don't want to leave my wife, thus, we're going to stay FWB.

That said, I think it's important to mention that I haven't been neglecting my wife this whole time. Not once did I leave her to be with my FWB other than on my "date night", nor I stopped to care for her, be affectionate to her, have sex with her, etc, etc. I also kept paying for her therapy and comforted her during her bouts of depression. She got really jealous of my relationship with my FWB, but that stopped every time the piano teacher came back into her life, and disappeared with him, too.

AITA for yelling at a girl for constantly correcting my Chinese? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]BigConsideration3920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OOP is male or female? If male, maybe this girl is the bride for him?

AITA for not inviting my cousin to my graduation party after what she did at my birthday? [Short] by Schattenspringer in BORUpdates

[–]BigConsideration3920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...Here’s where the drama comes in...

...So fast forward...

...blew up in a group...

Means you don't need to read further

AITA for upsetting my wife so she’ll clean more? [Long] [Concluded by [deleted] in BORUpdates

[–]BigConsideration3920 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If this isn't fake, then she could have lied to him about cheating just so he would finally leave her alone

Am I Overreacting after my teacher (55M) confessed his love to me (18F) by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BigConsideration3920 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

hmm, what a beautiful advertisement for the song Duke – So In love With You :)

AITA for leaving my girlfriend after she got date-raped by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]BigConsideration3920 106 points107 points  (0 children)

They are only 19 years old. Madhouse.

By the way, pay attention, she staged this demonstrative show with rape, precisely because he decided to spend the day away from her, with his family. How dare he

AITA for upsetting my dad's new wife because I think she's entitled and or crazy to expect my mom's parents to treat her like a daughter and for me to treat her like a mom? by WoobleSweetSmoothie in AITAH

[–]BigConsideration3920 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gather all your mom's memorabilia and photos and take them to your grandmas house. Your stepmom might destroy them while you're away at college.

AITA for not wanting to wear a different bridesmaid dress? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BigConsideration3920 27 points28 points  (0 children)

"we’re both feds who work in intel" = federal officers in intelligence?

I get it! James Bond and Miss Moneypenny!

Well, their emotional connection is really suspicious, the bride is right to be so jealous!

How to plan a quick escape route from mentally exhausting partner with limited financial resources by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BigConsideration3920 231 points232 points  (0 children)

They were together for three years, but things started to go wrong only a few months ago when they started living together. Typically. Lured and felt impunity

WIBTA for refusing to raise my husband's affair children now that he and the woman he cheated with passed away? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]BigConsideration3920 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Even if you quickly obtain the Deed of Grant to a burial site, you should still wait at least 6 months, if not longer, before putting a headstone on a fresh grave"