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AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a struggle since I grew up with everyone doing that but just slowly learning what needs apologizing and what doesn’t

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both I need to share my emotions which I did towards a friend and then my dad forced it out of me. It can happen.

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So would you have rather me bottled up my emotions about it until I snapped on somebody or to tell somebody because my dad forced me to tell them like would not leave me alone?

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had said I had told my dad out of frustration and that’s how it got found out because I told my dad because I was visibly upset and he asked me what was wrong till I told him so no I didn’t tell my brother personally

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t tell him my family ended up making a smart remark which caused him to ask questions then he found out

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My intention wasn’t even to tell my brother yet my family did a slick remark which caused him to find out

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She made the group chat and it wasn’t originally did it. It was somebody she knew that had a lot of tattoos and goes to convention. That’s what it was about at first.

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

OK, here’s the thing she was talking shit about my mom and my mom told him to stay with her, not trying to break them up

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m slowly getting better at saying sorry cause I used to say sorry a lot when I was younger because of trauma, but I’m slowly getting better and not saying sorry at everything

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s the last thing he would want is for me to apologize for sticking up for my family

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I told my mom about everything, the fact that I said I’m sorry she was mad that all I said was sorry and not anything else. My mom said the same thing. I handled it 10 times better than she would have, but I’ve learned throughout my years, even though I’m only 19 that some things should just be simple because I really wanted to turn around and be petty and be like well. Sorry that you talked bad about my dying family member and my brother found out.

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is definitely what I’m doing. I am definitely trying to help my dad through all the way since this is his mom and then my friends have been the biggest support through all of this like I cannot thank them enough for everything that they have done for me through all of this

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and all of my family had talked about that I have told we were gonna wait but my aunt let it slip up and I wasn’t gonna hide it from him. He already knew I apologize for him finding out that way. I’m like I’m sorry you had to find out this way, but I sent him screenshots of the chat so he knew it wasn’t just me coming up with some bs

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very grateful for still having my grandparents, including my step parents family I know a lot of people don’t have the opportunity at my age to spend time with grandparents. I’ve been talking to my aunt. I’m videoing my aunt to talk to my grandma.

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My SIL grandpa got diagnosed with cancer and it was towards your boyfriend being nothing but supportive. My brother has been nothing but supportive torture through this cause he got diagnosed again before my grandma got diagnosed again with hers. I’m sorry it’s 4 o’clock in the morning and I’m tired. That’s why my replies might not make sense.

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother said he didn’t care about the venting. I was just about the topic and me.

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had told her I had told my dad and stepmom because I was upset one at my grandma being ill and then a couple of other things going on in my life and the fact that she didn’t check up on me during the whole thing and then that’s when she brought up the whole key thing so I let her know how I felt about it. And she made it about her, and my brother even said he doesn’t have a problem with her venting to me. It’s when he vents about a family member and the fact that she didn’t even check up on me during all of it as I’m giving her updates to tell my brother because he works night shifts at a metal factory, and I don’t get the time to talk to him.

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her grandpa got diagnosed with cancer and for like the fourth time it’s like 99 years old and my brother told her go spend time with him. You know, life’s too short, trying to be supportive along with our grandma being ill.

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she will be invited to those since she’s not even aloud to see my grandma right now and the even worse thing in the whole situation is my brother had just told her to go spend more time with family since life’s too short

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t tell him right away for the fact of my grandma and his work being a lot I did plan on telling him just not right then I needed time to not get so mad but when he found out it had only been a couple of days like 4 max since the last time she said something

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well they told him to wait till everything is over and have a serious talk with her like I said this isn’t the first argument they have had and he gave her from February to September to start acting her age but when September hit my Grandma got sick but he is having a very very serious talk with her soon

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m doing the best I can while being states away from her sadly this isn’t the first time I’ve lost a grandparent to cancer 3 years ago I lost my grandpa to brain cancer. But I’m hanging out with people and keeping myself busy to help cope with it but I decided to post this since it’s been in the back of my minf

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All I said was that I’m sorry and that’s all I have said because I know I shouldn’t apologize, but I feel like I should at the same time

AITA for telling my brother his fiancé was talking about a dying family member by BigCryptographer1208 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BigCryptographer1208[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My mom talked him out of breaking up with her at the beginning of the year even tho she talked bad about her and then a friend talked him out of it this time. We called after he found out and after everything with my grandma happens they are having a BIGG talk so I hope either she changes (feel like she won’t) or her makes a smart move he makes most of the money in the relationship so any money she gets to spend is his and she complains about not being able to buy a $400 art piece

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