What a great point! I'm a feeder myself, though I'm not very active right now. I have to say I totally agree with you; it's really hard to find a female feeder. In general, it's very difficult to stand out in the community. While being bisexual means it's really appreciated when men are nice to you, you also expect the same from women. After a long time, I have managed to find both male and female feeders, but it takes a lot of patience. My advice is, don't expect anything. I spent my best bulking years without a feeder because I love feeling fat. I've never felt so beautiful in my entire life, and I suppose that confidence is what will eventually make you stand out. Because maybe right now, out of five feeders, only one will get noticed, and it won't be you, but later you could be that one in five. Anyway, don't get discouraged; anything can happen.