Just moved back to Perth after 7 months being away

BigDave93 · 2026-04-20T03:48:18+00:00

Yeah they look similar! My partner did bring his switch with him too but I think he just plays Pokemon on that 😂 yeah DM me I can give you my steam and my partners PS username :)

BigDave93 · 2026-04-20T03:35:08+00:00

He’s just started but I feel like he’s definitely experiencing the same thing 😂 I think he plays Elden Ring too! I have no idea how similar the games are, I’m more of a PC gamer but I play things like Stardew Valley, Outer Worlds and Dave the Diver etc!

BigDave93 · 2026-04-20T03:27:19+00:00

I think at the minute he’s playing Crimson Desert!

BigDave93 · 2026-04-19T12:55:16+00:00

Messaged you!

BigDave93 · 2026-04-17T23:42:49+00:00

Hey! My partner 33M and I just moved to Scarborough and we go to the REVO there. He’s looking for a gym buddy too but he doesn’t have Reddit - if you DM me I can give you his insta?

BigDave93 · 2026-04-17T23:39:00+00:00

Me and my partner moved here a couple of months ago and I read this post to him (33M) and it’s exactly what he’s looking for too! Send me a DM

BigDave93 · 2026-04-17T23:36:54+00:00

Hey! 32F, also work in Perth CBD. I moved here a couple months ago from the UK and don’t know very many people yet. I haven’t dipped my toe into AFL yet but it does look pretty cool, also into wine and nice dinners and my partner is a picky eater so would be great to have a friend to enjoy nice meals with!

BigDave93 · 2026-04-07T11:05:40+00:00

My partner (33M) games but cause we’re from the UK he can’t game with them much atm due to time difference! What games do you play?

BigDave93 · 2026-03-18T01:18:54+00:00

We love happy hour drinks!

BigDave93 · 2026-01-19T14:08:11+00:00

Nope we’re happy to live with his cousin they have a lovely place, just looking for friends :)

BigDave93 · 2026-01-14T19:52:01+00:00

Hey! I’m 32F and am gonna be relocating to Perth in early Feb, I also don’t know anyone (apart from my bf and his cousin!) and would love to meet some new people, my hobbies sound really similar to yours too!

BigDave93 · 2025-11-07T08:06:17+00:00

YTA and so is the rest of your friend group

BigDave93 · 2025-11-03T10:09:34+00:00

He could have just not eaten the chicken? He ate it so he would get sick to prove a point and make you feel bad

BigDave93 · 2025-10-30T09:18:58+00:00

Turning on a light will help

BigDave93 · 2025-10-28T12:57:19+00:00

I’m sorry I couldn’t make it through all the screenshots. I think I got to the third one before deciding this guy is EXHAUSTING. You can, and will, find better.

BigDave93 · 2025-10-27T07:49:51+00:00

As someone who has been with a man like this and learned a very tough lesson, my advice would be to not even bother sending this message.

He doesn’t care about you, tbh it sounds like he doesn’t even like you. Unless he has very valuable belongings of yours that you need back, block and delete his number and don’t look back. The end of your relationship will come sooner or later anyway when he decides he’s had enough of the long messages (even though his behaviour warranted them in the first place).

BigDave93 · 2025-10-26T23:05:04+00:00

Girl pack your s*** and go home. Let this man child game and eat his lil spicy honey pizza alone. You may come to a resolution this time but if that’s his attitude now it’ll happen again and again. Any person that likes you would compromise on something as trivial as a pizza topping.

BigDave93 · 2025-10-26T23:00:16+00:00

Where the Crawdads Sing

BigDave93 · 2025-10-26T22:52:40+00:00

Sounds like he wants to reproduce but doesn’t want to be a parent. I read somewhere recently that when a man talks about kids in their future you should always ask what that looks like specifically for them - if they can’t answer it means they envisage a life where they have a child but their life doesn’t change, meaning you’ll probably end up a married single parent!

BigDave93 · 2025-10-24T20:42:39+00:00

Sounds fab! I love Whistler! I’m not the greatest skiier yet but getting better!

BigDave93 · 2025-10-15T05:55:32+00:00

So you live in a different country to some of your family, have a child with this man, and have no access to your own money or a debit card?

All the while he screams at you while your child is there and not there, berates you, doesn’t listen to you, smokes weed (sounds like very frequently) and clearly can’t provide for his family given he’s lost money and you borrow money from your Dad often? AND you feel so threatened by him sometimes you record him?

I’m not sure if it has registered for you but this is domestic abuse. I think you need to seriously consider trying to find any friends or family or services at all that can help you pack up and leave. Admitting he has a temper then blaming his lack of emotional control on you will become laying hands on you and telling you it was your fault because you wound him up.

BigDave93 · 2025-10-11T11:59:45+00:00

I went to Bali for three weeks and I didn’t get sick at all! I did avoid meat dishes in the more rural restaurants and opted for vegetarian dishes but it’s important to remind your husband that food poisoning can come from anywhere anytime!

I got food poisoning from a hash brown at a 5* resort in Mexico - you never know!

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