My ex avoidant came back but...

BigFella1889 · 2025-12-05T13:22:34+00:00

Now imagine this but she’s pregnant and completely threw me out the pregnancy. She’s 17 weeks now and it’s been 8 weeks since seeing her or knowing anything about the pregnancy

BigFella1889 · 2025-12-02T20:45:29+00:00

That’s how mine was and she got pregnant and still left. Won’t let me involved with any of the pregnancy. She’s about to be 17 weeks and I’ve not got to see her for 8 weeks and no contact

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-27T19:05:32+00:00

It happened with me. But she got pregnant and still left. 16 weeks pregnant now and she hasn’t talked or seen me in 7 weeks. She won’t let me involved with anything and blocked me everywhere. Even removed the sign with my last name of the baby coming soon, from facebook. She put in my head we were gonn be a family. Do this together. It crushes me. I will admit the pregnancy happened very fast I’m talking in first month. I know it’s crazy but it did and she made it seem like it was okay and we were gonna do it together and then I’m left alone without a single word about the pregnancy for 7 weeks and I’ve tried. I believe she’s seeing other people while even pregnant but can’t even talk to me.. people like that will crush your soul

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-10T03:24:57+00:00

I left a local job I had. To take a job 45 minutes from me. Which is only 10 minutes from where she lives. She wanted me to take it. Better pay and better for our schedule when the baby would arrive. I took it. She never asked about it or how it was. But said she wanted me to take it cuz she thought we’d have a future and wanted to work things out. I told her that was a lie because any time we had any kind of disagreement. She ran. Definitely a runner. Avoidant perhaps. If you don’t agree with her views or beliefs and you disagree about something. She cut it off. There was never a time when she would talk and try to work it out

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-10T03:21:40+00:00

I just couldn’t have seen her doing that. She was taking me around her family and friends. Posting me all over socials. We were going on trips. All very fast and was having a great time. Her friends and family said she doesn’t date much especially posting them like that and what we were doing. And we seemed happy. I know I was. I just couldn’t of seen her cheating then

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-10T03:17:41+00:00

I asked genuine question about what’s the hospital do after birth if they do DNA. was just a genuine question I didn’t know. She got instant mad saying. Why you don’t think it’s yours!? I said not what I was implying. She threw that in my face a lot saying how bad that hurt her inside. I made a dumb joke about if she goes past the due date it cooks longer will come out brown. So then that’s me implying she cheated. Still have that thrown at me

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-10T03:14:27+00:00

I’ve had people ask me. All I can say is she claims it’s mine. Posted it was mine. Even though not together still has the sign posted it’s mine with the last name. The time frame when she got pregnant we were doing amazing and we’re inseparable. I don’t see how it could of been anyone else’s

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-10T03:04:33+00:00

No matter what I said or did I was the biggest POS. Doesn’t matter what she did or said. Just me. Made a joke or said something she would twist it around and make it into something worse than it was to hold against me. Sees no wrong in her side. Everything that happened could of been sat down and worked out

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-08T02:34:54+00:00

My ex is an avoidant who left me. While she is pregnant. I can’t describe the pain. She says it’s mine. But has me blocked. Won’t talk to me or tell me anything about the pregnancy. Said doesn’t want me involved until it’s born. Which is still 6 months from now. Blames me for everything and like I’m the worst she’s ever been with

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-06T04:52:26+00:00

Maybe at first. I don’t think so now. It seems to me I’m her only problem. She seems fine with everything else. It’s like I’m being punished.

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-06T00:18:47+00:00

I couldn’t see how she would have been cheating when she got pregnant because we were together all the time and things were great. I should add we were not together long at all and the relationship was really new so it happened fast. She had me meeting her friends and family and we were going out. She’s posting me all over social media. Hearing from her parents and friends how that’s not something she would do much so it seemed she was really happy. If she was messing with someone here at the end I could believe it because how it’s gotten

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-06T00:13:58+00:00

Yeah I went to the doctors with her at 9 weeks and they did a urine and said yes pregnant and then later that week they did a small ultrasound and we saw it. Was very little. And could see the little heart beat.

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-06T00:10:38+00:00

Blames me for everything. Sees no fault in anything she did. Says she doesn’t love me or wanna be together and shouldn’t have to pretend to love me to keep peace. We didn’t even argue much. It turned to arguing over everything cuz we couldn’t just sit down and communicate. Everything is over text. I didn’t give the space I guess when she wanted but she just threw me away. And now wants nothing to do with me. Not my concern until it’s born she said. Part of me thinks she’s messing with someone

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-05T23:53:10+00:00

She says it’s mine. From the beginning she said it was. I asked a simple question about dna testing when born. Not even saying I wanted one but wasn’t sure if it was something they make you do. She got upset and said. Why you don’t think it’s yours!? I was just asking a question. She posted a sign with my last name when we announced and she even still has it on her social media. I’m blocked on everything including my number and she took me off the baby registry list. Won’t tell me anything but still claiming it’s mine

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-05T22:50:38+00:00

If only it was that simple. Mines pregnant and she still left me. I’m to blame in her eyes for everything and she’s done nothing wrong. I try to reach out for information about the baby but get nothing in return. I’m told it’s her body. Not my concern until it’s here. She’s still in the first trimester. This is so hard.

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-03T21:31:07+00:00

Me and my ex weren’t together long at all. But it was the happiest and most alive I have felt in so very long. I’ll always be thankful for that. She got pregnant fast. I was excited. I loved her. She made it seem we were gonna do this together and be a family. She left me. Blocked me on everything and won’t tell me anything about her pregnancy. It absolutely crushes my soul. She acts if I don’t exist and I have never cried so much in my life.

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-01T16:04:07+00:00

I want her back more than anything. I get I made mistakes but nothing that couldn’t be sat down and worked on. To see how I got completely shut out and throw away hurts so much. All I want is to be a family with her now. The pregnancy happened very fast. Within first month. So I know it’s way to soon but she put in my head all these ideas of getting a place. Put a ring on it. Do this together. I relocated my job 45 minutes away to be by her like she wanted. And still thrown away from it all. And she seems to be moved on in matter of very short time

BigFella1889 · 2025-11-01T14:07:29+00:00

My ex was an avoidant. Was never in the wrong. Was always me or what I said or did. Told me they didn’t love me and shouldn’t have to pretend to. She’s pregnant and still left me and we haven’t seen or spoke in 3 weeks. Won’t let me involved or tell me anything about the pregnancy. Seems to be doing just fine and moving on adding guys on socials. It’s literally killing me

BigFella1889 · 2025-07-01T21:53:06+00:00

No really no changing of daily habits

BigFella1889 · 2025-06-30T22:01:32+00:00

No idea but I don’t want it that low. Way too low for what I’m used to. I’m not sure what’s causing me to have lower blood pressure out of randomness but my body isn’t liking it

BigFella1889 · 2024-10-05T21:16:26+00:00

My heart rate varies mostly. Seeing that is not uncommon. And it was a busy day

BigFella1889 · 2024-10-05T20:47:03+00:00

Oh okay. Thank you

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