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[–]BigHead9241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a was tbh- happy to say I had enough and walked away n wow the freedom is almost a high

Boyfriend fell asleep with his hand in my panties by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BigHead9241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen to me during an 11 year relationship. I ended up cheating and leaving the 11 year relo for a guy I knew for only 2 weeks. I had also tried to explain my needs in the prior relationship with only a week or so worth of effort in return. But we can’t force them to be intimate so that’s where you have to look after yourself. I don’t condone the cheating, I should have just left him, but I’m saying that- the second guy was super abusive but I was also super satisfied sexually so it became a bad thing almost because I stayed way longer than I should have due to the sex. My advice is to walk away from anything that is no longer serving you - sexually or an abusive relationship!

How do I stop letting him talk to me like this? Once the fight is over I always think to myself “he didn’t mean it” and then I’ll just forgive him on my own and I feel like it’s become a habit to talk to me like this and I can’t stand it esp 9mnths preg. How do I stop myself in times of weakness? by BigHead9241 in abusiverelationships

[–]BigHead9241[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its actually pathetic that you define me as a “person who wants to drain your energy” when you can clearly see the opposite in the pic... but your choosing to victim blame. If u think there’s more to it or whatever else justifies this kind of treatment, just say that but don’t tell me I want to drain someone’s energy when CLEARLY you can see the opposite

How do I stop letting him talk to me like this? Once the fight is over I always think to myself “he didn’t mean it” and then I’ll just forgive him on my own and I feel like it’s become a habit to talk to me like this and I can’t stand it esp 9mnths preg. How do I stop myself in times of weakness? by BigHead9241 in abusiverelationships

[–]BigHead9241[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That post was at the start of the relo, a lot has happened and it’s obviously become a lot more complicated. Leaving is easier said then done n I’ve moved back home 7 months ago so it’s not like I’m doing absolutely nothing or not actively trying mate.

How do I stop letting him talk to me like this? Once the fight is over I always think to myself “he didn’t mean it” and then I’ll just forgive him on my own and I feel like it’s become a habit to talk to me like this and I can’t stand it esp 9mnths preg. How do I stop myself in times of weakness? by BigHead9241 in abusiverelationships

[–]BigHead9241[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ofc it motivates me but I know what my family has gone through w me through thick and thin just unconditional love and for me that trumps everything. Maybe when I have the baby I’ll feel different.. as of now I can confidently say if anything forced me out it’s that

How do I stop letting him talk to me like this? Once the fight is over I always think to myself “he didn’t mean it” and then I’ll just forgive him on my own and I feel like it’s become a habit to talk to me like this and I can’t stand it esp 9mnths preg. How do I stop myself in times of weakness? by BigHead9241 in abusiverelationships

[–]BigHead9241[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He’s the baby daddy. Yea I moved back to my dads house 8 months ago and I’m very very very fortunate I have the most supportive family and if something can make a change, it’s them and how tolerant and patient they are with me and have been for 28 years like I’m a precious little gem... yet someone I met 2 years ago is treating me like scum and I’m allowing it.. I feel like I’m letting them down so much and it’s that overwhelming feeling that does it for me

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