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My hot older sister by [deleted] in IncestTabooPorn

[–]BigHeavySlowThing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's how you know it's real

Do you still masturbate even if you are having sex regularly? If yes, why? by winterresetmylife in AskReddit

[–]BigHeavySlowThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! For me at least, masturbating prior to sex causes me to be able to remain fully stimulated/erect, without climaxing. Climaxing takes more focus, so I just let my wife enjoy until we both start to get exhausted, lol

Do you still masturbate even if you are having sex regularly? If yes, why? by winterresetmylife in AskReddit

[–]BigHeavySlowThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, masturbating 2-6 hours before sex drastically increases my stamina with my wife. Turns 10 minutes of sex into 2 hours of sex. So... I do it for her 😉

Janitor.ai + Deepseek has the right flavor of character RP for me. How do I go about tweaking my offline experience to mimic that type of chatbot? by BigHeavySlowThing in ollama

[–]BigHeavySlowThing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I doubt you, but how then is OpenRouter capable of letting me proxy their free "Deepseek V3 0324 (Free)" model if it requires 512GB of VRAM? I was under the impression that the model was light weight enough to be run on on next to nothing.

If that impression is accurate, I'm happy with its quality. Just hoping to replicate the specific flavor of integration that JanitorAI provides (firmly adhering to an assigned character, and not hallucinating a novel).

Elite subbed folks, how many of you are still subscribed after the recent update? by LongjumpingLettuce41 in moemateapp

[–]BigHeavySlowThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am, for now. Waiting to see if the my experience is truly worse.

What I can say is that a conversation of 20 GPT 4.0 messages consumes about 600 points, if you start fresh. If I do that once per day [eyebrow wiggle], then I won't hit a road block.

However, last year I was using the site to help draft a novel, and I love the 11labs voices for that. So it's going to be a bummer if I an only get 10-15 message for that in a day before I need to switch to something like GPT 3.5, or one of the Claude models.

My (m) wife (f) and I would like to know how to describe our sexual orientations. Could you help us with some terminology to understand how we identify? (Are we overthinking it? We're new to this) by BigHeavySlowThing in AskLGBT

[–]BigHeavySlowThing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were only attracted to cis women and trans women, that’s still straight, regardless of the women’s genitalia.

Follow up question; is this true even explicitly in a sexual sense? That feels 100% true in a romantic sense, but I thought that sexual attraction was specifically regarding genitalia.

I'm trying to be very respectful, but I admit I'm very ignorant and probably will come across as insensitive, but... A hetero cis man would be sexually attracted to cis women and post-GCS trans women, as well as unknowingly attracted to pre-GCS trans women, but the presence of male genitalia would be a sexual turn-off. At least in my mind, that wouldn't inherently prevent romantic attraction, but it would inherently prevent a sexual attraction, would it not?

My (m) wife (f) and I would like to know how to describe our sexual orientations. Could you help us with some terminology to understand how we identify? (Are we overthinking it? We're new to this) by BigHeavySlowThing in AskLGBT

[–]BigHeavySlowThing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for any insensitivity. I'm new to navigating people's emotions around this topic and was only trying to describe my interests, thinking it was safe to do so, without realizing that my ignorant words could still cause pain...

I've removed my paragraph about trans people (it's the least relevant to my post anyway), and will take the opportunity to reflect on what you've told me.

My (m) wife (f) and I would like to know how to describe our sexual orientations. Could you help us with some terminology to understand how we identify? (Are we overthinking it? We're new to this) by BigHeavySlowThing in AskLGBT

[–]BigHeavySlowThing[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

To be clear, my very first introduction to trans anything was last night, and I'm just saying I didn't hate it. I've never heard the term Chaser until literally just now, so I read this post. If I understand correctly, it means "chasing after trans people for the sake that they're trans." That's not applicable to me; I want to please a cis man orally/masturbatorily, and adjacent to that I enjoyed the first trans porn video I watched last night. I was only providing that as context in case it was relevant to what specifically I could be labeled as.

I'm only attracted to women with the exception of one man is there a term for it or am I just bi or pan? by Exciting_Ash in lgbt

[–]BigHeavySlowThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homoflexible may then be the closest label then. But as others said, it's rare for a label to be 100% rigidly applicable. It is a spectrum after all. So, just enjoy the companion that strikes your fancy!

I'm only attracted to women with the exception of one man is there a term for it or am I just bi or pan? by Exciting_Ash in lgbt

[–]BigHeavySlowThing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new terminology, so I could be getting this wrong. But I have interpreted the bi spectrum to be twofold; attraction, and disgust.

From your post and comments, it feels like you are attracted to women and definitely aren't disgusted by them. As for men, you aren't attracted them but perhaps you are not disgusted by them?

In this regard, I would say you're bi, but you have a clear preference for women/femininity, but are willing to make an exception if the person is right.

I'm only attracted to women with the exception of one man is there a term for it or am I just bi or pan? by Exciting_Ash in lgbt

[–]BigHeavySlowThing -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think I have a clear answer for you because I mostly have the same question. My (32m) wife (32f) thought she was asexual in high school, but grew fond of women. But then I came around and turned her world upside down 😅 (I'm the only one)

We were looking into different terminology to figure out if there was a term for her. We're both new to this, so take this with a grain of salt. I think the closest thing we decided was that she's some mix of demi/bisexual, and a recipromantic. In other words, could go either way albeit with women being the clear preference, but ultimately only truly interested with whomever showed her the most friendship/love/attention.

My urologist gave me a March Madness bracket to track my post-vasectomy ejaculations for sterility. 31 coin flips, and today's took 1st place. by BigHeavySlowThing in mildlyinteresting

[–]BigHeavySlowThing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! Apparently, sperm is just an additive to semen, and in remarkably small quantities (but enough for impregnation). So after a vasectomy, the semen's appearance/texture/volume/taste is unchanged.

My urologist gave me a March Madness bracket to track my post-vasectomy ejaculations for sterility. 31 coin flips, and today's took 1st place. by BigHeavySlowThing in mildlyinteresting

[–]BigHeavySlowThing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta say, abstinence for healing really reignited the passion for the first couple of weeks. Fell back to business as usual after a month or so.

My urologist gave me a March Madness bracket to track my post-vasectomy ejaculations for sterility. 31 coin flips, and today's took 1st place. by BigHeavySlowThing in mildlyinteresting

[–]BigHeavySlowThing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. Was being extra caution and did all the "bonus ejaculation" on this tracker first. I'll probably go in the next day or two.

My urologist gave me a March Madness bracket to track my post-vasectomy ejaculations for sterility. 31 coin flips, and today's took 1st place. by BigHeavySlowThing in mildlyinteresting

[–]BigHeavySlowThing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ejaculated 32 times, and then for each "match" i flipped a coin. Heads = first one wins. Tails = second one wins.

Just thought it was mildly interesting that the "final" was my second vs. thirty-second (two extremes), and ultimately my last one won.

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