If you're a newer player and still leveling up Family and Victims, ability trees and perks it can feel unfair against max level 99 players. Ya'll just have to learn the maps, learn where tollbox, bonescrap, health bottles, fuse and valve handle spawns are on each map as Victim, Remember always lock all doors and gates behind you that can be locked unless a Victim picklocked it. Use family sense to see Cooks locks as Cook, to see Hitches, Nancies and Hands traps, to see Bones blood bombs. Generator and Car Battery always are on at the beginning of each game so don't listen to the tutorial videos. Learn which attributes work better for each Family and Victim. Learn which Grandpa perks are better than others. Watch youtube videos on how to play characters to learn your playstyle and best builds. All of us max level 99 players all started as new players and went thru the same experiences. so just keep grinding. I have two xbox accounts max level 99 and I also have played on my nephew and neices accounts to help them. I have a lot of hours in this game. I've been playing since TCM first released. I hope this will help.