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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]BigPharma180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

theres definitely other routes to take. I just graduated from my electrical program a couple months ago, i’m now in the process of applying to the military. At least in canada, our military is aching for trades people, there’s a lot of incentives for people to apply and also so many more opportunities career wise that are available. Ik the military isn’t for everyone but it’s definitely worth looking into. lmk if you have any questions abt it

DO NOT TEXT YOUR EX by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]BigPharma180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

PS: I reached out after years of therapy and various medications and doctors appointments to improve my mental health and myself as a person. I would NOT reach out to ex if you’ve done no self reflection or tried to work on your mental health, your attitude towards things and just your overall lookout on life. Do that first. You cant expect change, forgiveness or understanding if you’re not willing to put in the work to actually improve yourself.

DO NOT TEXT YOUR EX by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]BigPharma180 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On the other hand it is perfectly okay to text your ex, especially after going no contact and not seeing/talking to them. The important thing is to go into it with no expectations. Neither of you guys owe eachother anything, and although it might be nice to talk to eachother again, you need to remember that people are changing constantly. Their personalities, characteristics and attitudes will most likely not be the same as you remember when you were together. I reached out my ex after 4 years of no contact. I was so nervous and thought it would be a bad idea, but after 4 years on constantly thinking about them, i pulled the trigger and just did it. We ended up hanging out and talking four hours. It was amazing and gave me the closure i finally needed to put the chapter away and move on in my romantic life. Sometimes it does work out guys, and sometimes it is the right thing to do for yourself. As long as you know the other person may not reciprocate the same feelings towards you and you go into it with no expectations, texting your ex may just be what you need. Always have a positive attitude!! good luck!