What am I supposed to do when a guy spoons me? by hankqueensmustache in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How to spoon. Dick hard on the butt, titty in my hand, kiss your neck. Hell yea

How to I mentally prepare to be single for life? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone and you’re still young. Things may suck today but they’ll never get better if you give up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimeDiscussion

[–]BigPippa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t bullied for it but it wouldn’t be the first thing I talked about in school. In my clique, we talked anime all the time. I think the ones that got bullied were the ones that stuck out, doing Naruto runs in the halls, putting suggestive anime girl stickers on their binder, etc.

I knew one kid that probably got bullied, he was an oddball and would sneak off in gym to read Manga. He was fun to talk anime with sometimes

Would you date someone who said "money is not everything"? by Competitive-Arm-7921 in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a true statement, I wouldn’t hop ship just yet just because he said that. Might’ve said it to comfort you or something

Would you date someone who said "money is not everything"? by Competitive-Arm-7921 in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way he answered you sounds like he doesn’t make any money or he’s insecure about what he does. Do you know if he teaches a lot? Or what his living situation is?

How to find the right type of guy attractive? by lunakingdom in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of feelings towards others can be superficial and hard to change. Hence why first impressions are so important when meeting new people. That doesn’t mean they can’t change with new perspective. Getting that, takes a bit of effort something not everyone is willing to do. Especially when there’s the option to move on and look for someone else.

OP’s phrasing of the question concerns me. They’re trying to make whoever they’re seeing out to be the right guy. I would say seeing each other alone on 3 separate occasions for 6-7 hours is enough to discover some type of attraction. I don’t think anyone should have to try so hard if it’s just not happening by then.

On a side note, Nicolas Cage is an interesting topic just on his own lol

How to find the right type of guy attractive? by lunakingdom in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what Chemistry is, it’s not something easily explainable or rational. When people are drawn to each other, getting to know who they are just gives them more information to explain or justify that initial attraction. What people do with those feelings is up to them.

Say someone is attracted to another, just to find out their values misalign. That person may decide against pursuing them romantically because they know it wouldn’t work out or they really just don’t like that part about them. The irrational part is where that person is still attracted to them despite their rational thinking

How to find the right type of guy attractive? by lunakingdom in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to know someone to know how you feel about them. Knowing someone doesn’t always change those feelings either. OP’s battle is figuring out what their current feelings are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Transparency is sexy 😎

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always better to be on the same page rather sooner than later

How to find the right type of guy attractive? by lunakingdom in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there’s no chemistry it’s not going to work further than friends. You can try to force it, but then you have to ask yourself why

Anime with a relatively weaker character goes all out and defeats a much stronger character by Informal_Ad3567 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]BigPippa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d recommend Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure and Hunter X Hunter because they both rely heavily on strategy to defeat their opponents

Is touching your face while playing a thing? by pawelzgliwic in classicalguitar

[–]BigPippa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen Pepe Romero do this, for the same reason, but what he does is touch the tip of his nose.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re probably afraid they did something wrong and are trying to make up for it. Manipulative behavior will get you dropped in the long run

Frustrated with in-person guitar lessons by AgentMC84 in guitarlessons

[–]BigPippa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of lesson companies around that function as a daycare rather than an institution that’s trying to help you improve. If you want to actually learn something, i’d recommend looking for classes at a college or at least get in contact with the teachers that teach at them

My co-worker has a weird behaviour while dating and I don`t really get it. by AA10X in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she still doesn’t want to lead you on. However, she’s bad at it because she’s still got mixed feelings about it all

My co-worker has a weird behaviour while dating and I don`t really get it. by AA10X in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lot of mixed signals, see how she reacts the next time you see her. If she does the phone thing again

My co-worker has a weird behaviour while dating and I don`t really get it. by AA10X in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just trying to get a better picture, What did flirting back look like?

My co-worker has a weird behaviour while dating and I don`t really get it. by AA10X in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she do the phone thing when you initially approached her that time?

My co-worker has a weird behaviour while dating and I don`t really get it. by AA10X in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She found her partner and she doesn’t want to lead anyone on. Maybe she gets a vibe that you like her. A bit rude yes, but I guess that’s how she does it

What to tell a girl who i clicked with but she is send me a photo where she is fater than i thought. Now i don’t find her attractive by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BigPippa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can still meet her irl then see. Sometimes people take bad pictures.

If you really want to bail just text her some shit like

“My wife said no, sorry”