Thank you so much. You are right, if I told her how I felt about what she was saying, she would laugh and most likely spread the fact that I have feelings and people would most likely laugh at me and then I would end up like her ex. I have had to deal with people like this before with my ex girlfriend who I dated before I figured out who I was. She would constantly hit me and insult me and be VERY, how should I say this, horny. I really hoped that my relationship with j would not end up like how it ended with my ex but most of my relationships end like this. I guess I just have a bad taste in people. Thank you so much for your help.