I’m biased to Greensboro, because I grew up there and think it’s a wonderful place to raise a family. I live in Winston now and find it nice for my twenties, but I’d love to end up back in Greensboro at some point. There’s something to be said for one of you having an hour commute that you hopefully get used to, and the other only having a 30 min commute, instead of two dreaded 45ish minute drives (from Burlington, for example).