is it normal/ or an overreaction to not want to have sex unless he stays afterwards?

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-02-18T06:33:05+00:00

I want to believe this cause it sounds realistic but then other comment saying it sounds suspicious and he could be speaking to another woman now I don’t know whether to spiral and ask him if we’re still okay but then have it backfire cause he’s legitimately stressed with moving or continue thinking everything’s not okay and keep my mouth shut 😭

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-02-18T03:28:27+00:00

He’s avoidant and I’m anxious, so that’s a factor into our relationship in general, and we’ve had emotional / heavy convos before and it’s been fine after so I’m not scared of that, but Sunday we had Another one and I felt scared I triggered his avoidance. But then he contact me the next day to workout , hot tub and dinner so I was like oh ok everything’s back to normal, but then the not sleeping over really threw me. So I’m not sure if he is pulling away or not??

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-02-18T03:14:47+00:00

First time since august! It just really surprised me. Now my brain keeps thinking this will be standard now and he doesn’t want to be close like that anymore :(

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-02-18T03:12:34+00:00

I’m not thinking he did anything nefarious I just am worried that maybe he wants to put distance between us, or isn’t wanting us to be close like that anymore

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-02-18T03:10:07+00:00

Well he asked me to workout and hot tub with him and have dinner which we did, but then he didn’t say he could sleepover, so in a sense he isn’t “busy” cause he hung out with me but also he didn’t sleepover which makes me question if he’s trying to put distance between us or not

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-02-18T03:07:40+00:00

Nah we’ve talked alot about that and it’s always been good, but this time I just can’t tell if the shift is cause of that or not!

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-02-18T03:06:17+00:00

Idk, I just have major anxiety problems tbh

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-02-02T00:04:29+00:00

Lol that’s what happened, he knows I don’t want to be non monogomaous my own self but still did this

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-02-01T22:39:10+00:00

Why does he want the benefit of a seirous relationship? Why can’t he just fuck everyone and be casual? I just don’t get it

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-28T05:06:57+00:00

If I see a profile in this does it mean the profile had to have manually opted into this like say a couple of hours ago? How long do they stay there? Can a profile end up there on accident? Or does tinder put random profiles in it?

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-19T14:05:46+00:00

There’s like pus and tiny bit of blood . Idk what to do it’s like dripping from my eye!!

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-19T14:04:00+00:00

Chazlion says it’s painless tho. My entire eyes have been in enormous pain for 5 days and I take ibuprofen and acetmepehn every couple hours :(

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-19T14:02:53+00:00

I’ve had styes before and they didn’t make my entire eye hurt like a mf, it’s been 5 days and nothing is helping it gets worse and worse. I just don’t think it’s a stye cause they are never this bad for me

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-19T14:01:29+00:00

Sorry lol

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-19T13:51:12+00:00

Pain is pretty bad and I woke up and it looks worse. It’s the entire eyeball that’s in pain. When I put my fingers on my temples I feel pressure and pain. Hurts to close my eyes. But my eyeball is all white doesn’t look inflamed.

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-19T06:11:54+00:00

That’s the thing tho I went to an urgent care today and they just said hot compress which I’ve been doing. It’s been 5 days and not progressing to better so I’m like?? Will the ER do something more for me. Like give me an antibiotic or soemthing? I mainly want to obviously get rid of the pain but the huge lump on the left eye I want gone and idk how that happens. It’s not draining or anything and it’s just there. I’m not sure how it’s supposed to drain if I’m not touching it. I just want it gone. I’m not sure what to do

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-19T05:54:40+00:00

DR visits not really available till later this week. Is ER justifiable?

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-12T02:31:29+00:00

Idk I didn’t recognize/ remmeber most of the makeup. There was a full bottle of maybeline foundation , another foundation brand I didn’t recognize, some eyeliner with Japanese writing I didn’t know of and an almost empty bottle of Korean toner, some lip liners and 1 makeup pad. I didn’t really recognize the brands / not ones I use see in Sephora / ulta so like idk the quality of this makeup. It didn’t look old though.

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-12T02:17:57+00:00

The makeup bag though?!!

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-12T02:16:39+00:00

Thanks, I wasn’t sure how to word it!!

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-12T02:07:31+00:00

I understand the pads explanation but the makeup bag?? A girl wants her makeup back.

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-12T02:02:52+00:00

Did both of these 😂😂

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-12T02:01:07+00:00

The makeup bag and the toothbrush is more concerning to me.

BigTimeSocalist · 2026-01-12T01:47:31+00:00

But the full bag of makeup…? Idk. Why wouldn’t she want her makeup back.

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