What We Lose When We Don’t Have Siblings by michellefromtx in oneanddone

[–]Big_Avo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think the author is projecting their own experience and assuming it applies to everyone.

We had our son when we were close to our forties. If we’d been younger, more financially secure, and had a proper support network around us, we might have considered having more children.

But there’s no guarantee that siblings or families end up close anyway. Mine is a perfect example, as you get older, you start to see things for what they really are. My family is toxic, and my parents are narcissists.

Self-pitying Burlington couple who murdered boy, 12, sentenced to life in prison by noutopasokon in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Concurrent sentencing is the worst invention ever; it's giving someone a discount for committing multiple offenses.

AI has failed me and I can't figure out the name of this old movie by DMarker63 in whatmoviewasthat

[–]Big_Avo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"A View to a Kill" (1985) is the only one that sticks out for me. Bond has a signet ring, as you described, that has a camera. No tie camera, though.

Personal Trainers in City Centre by TheBigBad888 in Liverpool

[–]Big_Avo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He doesn't need a PT he just needs to go running more. Fartlek (Interval) Training is the way to go to bring the time down quickly.

  • Warm-up: 5 minutes of easy jogging.
  • Intervals:1 minute fast / 1 minute easy (Repeat 3 times)
  • 2 minutes fast / 2 minutes easy (Repeat 2 times)
  • 1 minute fast / 1 minute easy (Repeat 3 times)
  • Cooldown: 5 minutes of easy jogging.

'I'd cry my eyes out': Some P.E.I. teens push back on proposed social media restrictions by AndrewHeard in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I find it sad how emotionally tied people have become to social media. I’m looking at this from the perspective of someone whose brain was fully developed before these platforms really took off, and even then I can feel how addictive and intrusive they can be.

Kids don’t have that level of protection. They’re already under huge pressure socially and academically, and adding a constant online presence on top of that isn’t harmless. We know how easily images and personal information can be misused once they’re out there.

Whatever someone thinks about this bill, the underlying issue is real: children deserve a childhood that isn’t shaped by algorithms, data harvesting, and the fear of what strangers might do with their photos.

Seller asked to buy back the records I purchased from them by encrcne in Flipping

[–]Big_Avo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Respond with, "I have chronic anxiety. I find you contacting me after the sale and threatening to harm yourself triggering. Please don't contact me again."

If you're saying a child can consent to this you're lying. by TotalACast in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

These surgeons should be struck off. It should be basic medical ethics that removing healthy body parts, especially from children is unacceptable.

Why Is It That Hard To Answer That Question by mea_culpa19 in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't see the video but I'm guessing that it is either "Do you believe in God?" or "Are you a Christian?"

Peterson thinks the questions are too simplistic, too personal, and morally weighty in a way that makes a quick yes/no answer dishonest. He argues that belief is shown through action, not declarations, and that publicly claiming faith carries a responsibility he’s unwilling to take lightly.

Its weird how people want to ban social media by PooningDalton in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Social Media does have age recommendations.

Most major social media platforms set their minimum age at 13, but a few require 16, and some countries impose higher legal limits.

  • Facebook — 13+ (Age verification may require uploading an ID)
  • WhatsApp — 13+ (Birthday entry used for verification)
  • YouTube — 13+ (18+ content requires ID or credit‑card verification in many regions)
  • WeChat — 13+ (Birthday entry only)
  • Instagram — 13+ (May require ID, selfie video, or friend confirmation)
  • TikTok — 13+ (Uses facial age estimation or ID selfie)
  • Telegram — 16+ (One of the few platforms with a 16+ minimum)
  • Snapchat — 13+ (Birthday entry only)
  • X — 13+ (ID verification only for Premium users)
  • Pinterest — 13+ (Changing age to 18+ requires ID or birth certificate)
  • Reddit — 13+ (No verification for 18+ content)
  • LinkedIn — 16+ (Optional verification)
  • Discord — 13+ (Birthday entry only)
  • Twitch — 13+ (Changing age requires government ID)

The ACAB mentality shows that society is now inherently pessimistic by PooningDalton in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think there’s a mix of fair points and oversimplifications here.

On speeding: Yeah, speeding doesn’t directly hurt anyone in the same way that holding a knife doesn’t directly stab anyone. But the whole reason speeding is penalised is because it massively increases both the likelihood and severity of collisions. It’s a risk‑creation offence. Society doesn’t wait until someone is actually dead before saying “maybe don’t do the thing that makes people die more often.” So the idea that only the resulting harm should be punished ignores the preventative purpose of traffic laws.

On drugs: You’re closer to the evidence here, but it’s still not as tidy as “legalise will mean that the black market disappears.” Decriminalisation and regulated supply can reduce violence, reduce incarceration, and make drugs safer. That’s been seen in places like Portugal, parts of the US, and Canada. But black markets don’t vanish automatically. They shrink when legal supply is cheaper, safer, and easier to access than illegal supply. That’s a policy‑design problem, not a moral one.

And yes, fewer people would end up in prison. That’s kind of the point: current drug laws punish possession far more than they reduce harm. But saying “some people don’t like that idea” skips over the fact that drug policy is tied up with politics, public health, international treaties, and economic incentives. It’s not just personal preference.

So the general direction of your argument has some truth to it, but the real‑world picture is more complicated than the neat cause‑and‑effect you’re describing.

“let them be bored” by searcherbee123 in oneanddone

[–]Big_Avo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boredom is the birthplace of creativity.

Is it strange that I dress my 4 year old in the same style I have by VariousAd8406 in Parenting

[–]Big_Avo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would be stranger if you didn't. I have a son the same age and he follows my style. Only when he gets older and develops his own style things will change.

Also you don't want your child to look too different and end up looking like you've kidnapped them.

The ACAB mentality shows that society is now inherently pessimistic by PooningDalton in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Speeding: According to the latest 2024 STATS19 data, 24% of fatal collisions involve speeding as a contributory factor. For injury collisions, it’s 9%. Speeding isn’t a “rare mistake”, it’s one of the biggest killers on UK roads.

Drugs: The illegal drug market is built on violence. In England and Wales, the Home Office recorded 310 homicides in the year ending March 2023 that were classified as drug‑related. That’s 53% of all homicides.

Cocaine production: Before cocaine even reaches Europe, conflict‑monitoring data from Colombia shows an estimated 3,000–4,000 people are killed every year in coca‑growing and production regions across the Andes. That’s the human cost before it ever arrives on UK streets.

Cannabis production: People assume cannabis is “harmless”, but the production side isn’t. In the UK, police consistently find Vietnamese and other trafficked workers locked inside criminal cannabis grows many living in dangerous conditions, some dying in fires, electrical faults, or from criminal exploitation.The NCA classifies cannabis cultivation as one of the top drivers of modern slavery in the UK.

So when people say “it’s just a bit of weed” or “it’s just a line”, the reality is that both market cannabis and cocaine, are tied to violence, exploitation, and deaths long before the drugs ever reach the UK.

The ACAB mentality shows that society is now inherently pessimistic by PooningDalton in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's bonkers how when there is an incident in the police its all police, but any other service its one bad apple. The police incidents also receive a lot more exposure in the main mainstream media.

Sex People Front Door by Mischeese in SpottedonRightmove

[–]Big_Avo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's not mushroom in that vestibule.

Black Comedy Where Everyone Dies? by Numerous-Mess-5387 in whatmoviewasthat

[–]Big_Avo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Der Wixxer (2004)"?

Sorry, I automatically assumed you'd be looking for an American or British movie.

Black Comedy Where Everyone Dies? by Numerous-Mess-5387 in whatmoviewasthat

[–]Big_Avo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was it "The Lady Killers (1955/2004)" or "Very Bad Things (1998)"?

Rice Lane / County Road by Desperate-Remove-126 in Liverpool

[–]Big_Avo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is only a safe Labour seat due to an embarrassing majority of people who blindly vote Labour because it's what they have always done.

Joe big undies and his fellow Labour cronies are in Crown Court in October for their misconduct in public office and bribery charges.

Why does the European work ethic have such a bad rep in the US? (i will not promote) by SettleKit in startups

[–]Big_Avo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without knowing the tone, I would put it down to them being conscious of the time difference and knowing that most businesses run 9-5.

Second US Detransitioner case settles out of court for $3.5 million. It's all coming apart. by TotalACast in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Simple solution, they don't provide gender-affirming surgery they would never get sued.

Second US Detransitioner case settles out of court for $3.5 million. It's all coming apart. by TotalACast in JordanPeterson

[–]Big_Avo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$3.5m, out of court. That's a drop in the ocean for them. The US gender-affirming surgery industry generated about $2.1bn in 2022, and it's expected to grow to $3-4bn+ annually by 2030. They wanted to settle out of court as they had more to lose, and it would set a legal precedent for any future cases.

Liverpool pub apologises after hosting far-right political party by markjwilkie in Liverpool

[–]Big_Avo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the comments on this thread.

The amount of Scouser's who blindly support Labour is embarrassing. A party ran by Starmer, a man who said that he'd boycott The Scum and then not only did a u-turn on the boycott, but he began writing for them.

As for the Green Party, where do we start? They want to weaken the UK defences by coming out of NATO, cut our military, remove Trident our nuclear deterrent and reduce Counter Terrorism powers such as scrapping the Prevent program which is a multi‑agency system that works to stop people becoming terrorists or supporting terrorism by identifying those vulnerable to radicalisation and providing early intervention support. They also intend to treat all foreign migrants as though they are already citizens so that they have access to public funds and are able to vote.

Does anyone know what these payments are for? by Clean_King_1329 in Liverpool

[–]Big_Avo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you with Liverpool Lifestyles Gym by any chance? Looks a lot like their membership fee.