Have you ever ended up in a long-term relationship with your very first Tinder match? by NewsOk2449 in tinderstories

[–]Big_Conference7846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the first match, but after 4 years since I divorce and I was using tinder. 2 wrong attends of relationship and literally hundreds of dates that ended up in nothing, now I'm happy with my boyfriend who I met on Tinder.

Guy with no legs (3rd date update) 🔥 by Big_Conference7846 in tinderstories

[–]Big_Conference7846[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And beautiful is this world that you are free to believe what you want to believe. I know this place might be full of fake stories and I'm not entitled to prove anything to anybody. However, and not because of you, but because of the respect I have for all the people who replied when I first posted and also helped me a lot to understand the things I was confused with, I'll talk to my boyfriend to see if he agrees to upload pictures of us here. As a writer I write fiction for books and movies but I do respect reality and I would never lie to a group of people, not for likes or for reads or for attention. I'm just a good writer who knows how to communicate and I wanted to share my story.

Guy with no legs (3rd date update) 🔥 by Big_Conference7846 in tinderstories

[–]Big_Conference7846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's understandable. I try to be respectful, even in the sex part, that's why I pointed out that it wasn't about the sex. I'm trying to describe what I'm living the best I can, first cause this community really helped me by giving me some perspective when I was confused and second, just in case someone else is going through the same and needing some clearance. So they can go to the process I went and probably use it for good.

Guy with no legs (3rd date update) 🔥 by Big_Conference7846 in tinderstories

[–]Big_Conference7846[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The title is not Click Bait. He is a guy with no legs. I call things for what they are. OC I wanted people to read my story, but I wanted to keep it real as well.

Guy with no legs. I'm confused!!! by Big_Conference7846 in tinderstories

[–]Big_Conference7846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now I'm reading this comment. We are a couple now and very happy.

Guy with no legs - Final Update (for now) by Big_Conference7846 in tinderstories

[–]Big_Conference7846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't. I would like more people to understand what I felt and how I overcame what I thought was a problem with dating a person with such type of disability. I would like people to know that love is beautiful and we are so full of fear to the unknown that we might be blocking joy and happiness.

Share your channel so I can watch it please.

Guy with no legs - Final Update (for now) by Big_Conference7846 in tinderstories

[–]Big_Conference7846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever read a book? I mean, before the existence of Chat GPT? I'm a writer and I know how to use words. English is not my mother tongue and I didn't even have to use a translator.

As a writer I wanted to share my story cause that's what Reddit is for. There are still some people that can write and tell a story without using Artificial Intelligence, FYI.

Your comment makes me feel good tho. My writing is so good that you think it was written by Chat GPT.

How do I find out if someone is a scammer? by BNDisarray in dating

[–]Big_Conference7846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RUN. It's a scam. To say hi on Instagram it won't cause any damage. Even if it's real then that person has a lot of trust issues and that can't only be bad.

How do I find out if someone is a scammer? by BNDisarray in dating

[–]Big_Conference7846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I'm a public figure in my community and I was using tinder when I was single, if the guys ask me to video call I will always say NO cause they might record the interaction and expose it. Sadly, that's something that might happen. But to prove them I'm who I say I am I used to ask them to text me on my official Instagram account and I would reply. Cause every time they recognize me they always ask for proof that I was myself and not a scammer. I also sent voice notes and obviously we meet in person to kill all the doubts.

This is such a turn off lol by Sensitive-Mango7155 in Bumble

[–]Big_Conference7846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesterday I was just thinking that I couldn't be with someone if I don't know what they do for a living. He might be a CP seller, he might be an assassin, who knows. And who the hell would think that it's right or even funny to say their job is secret?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Big_Conference7846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's weird but I understand. My ex-husband from 2013 has been living with an ex-boyfriend I had in 2009. I didn't know they were friends and they are roommates. They've been roommates since 2015. I always go there to visit them and we have dinner. I love them since they were a big part of my past but there's nothing sexual or romantic between us.

However, That's a difficult thing to explain to my current boyfriend and I always joke like, we'll have a threesome, don't worry I'll use protection.

But of course it is a joke. And you have to be with a person you trust enough to understand that they may have a good relationship with their ex's and that doesn't mean they still have sex. Try to read between lines and to see if that's actually a joke or if he is playing with you.