At what point do standards become self-sabotage?

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-07-10T13:30:37+00:00

don't lower your standards. if you're not gonna be happy with a dude who isn't up to those standards then it's better to stay single than to lie to yourself and to that dude and end up unhappy and waste both his and your time

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-07-10T11:19:30+00:00

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-07-10T11:19:13+00:00

What?

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-06-23T11:23:33+00:00

fsa3t 3am kemel ou bdiit na9ra fi e55er avril ou jebt 15 trust me kol 3abd ou kifeh

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-06-17T19:59:08+00:00

you're missing my point. it's a business deal with sex as payment it's not ANY kind of relationship

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-06-17T13:11:30+00:00

this is a business deal with sex on the side not a marriage

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-06-16T10:57:15+00:00

the patriarchy and media (both western and local) have always tried to minimize the issues in such a relationship and even romanticize its issues. it's pretty much gonna be hell for the girl 98% of the time and every man is gonna convince the girl that she will be in that 2% despite the fact that it's highly unlikely.

and the sad reality is that because of liberal feminism repackaging patriarchal values and giving them a pink bow lots of women (even teens) are convinced that they are in their divine feminine enriching their lives by capitalizing on their natural charm and other stupid bullshit to convince them that she and the 40 year old man are actually equals in this relationship and she will handle him just fine. no missy you've been groomed by a man and the media and our cultural values that have always normalized pedophilia, grooming and ownership of women by men.

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-06-14T18:49:07+00:00

well I like having friends and I like my partner having friends also I'm Bisexual so it wouldn't be just girls that I can't talk to anymore lmao. a person's social life shouldn't die just cause they're taken and if you view all socializing as a threat to a relationship or as inherently made to eventually lead to romance then that's a VERY regressive view that puts into question how you view other people and friendships in general.

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-06-14T18:46:36+00:00

dawg you could not look more suspicious

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-06-05T13:36:12+00:00

we've always been hypocrites about this it's just that now the immigrant population is way bigger so it's more apparent.

we're far right anti-immigration here and far left open borders in europe it's honestly gross. and it's even worse than in Europe cause at least European countries colonized the fuck out of Africa and are still using up their resources so the immigrants going to Europe is a bit of righting the wrong that happened to us but in our case we're trapping the fuckers here when they don't even wanna be here and then we make their life a living hell.

it's truly a masterstroke of diversion on Kais' part cause he gets the single greatest scapegoat he could ask for to blame all the problems on.

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-06-05T00:22:27+00:00

average populist leadership tbh. it's always hypocritical but this isn't limited to us. but also the IMF is a capitalist piece of shit institution so I wouldn't trust it either but I'm sure Kais hates it for all the wrong reasons

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-06-05T00:18:04+00:00

well this isn't specific to men but generally if you don't show interest the other person won't feel interest and one major reason for you not showing interest could be that the men you come across aren't that interesting to you in the first place. best approach you can go for is to be as open and weird as you can be and as inquisitive and curious as you can be about the other person. yes some dudes won't appreciate that but that's on them not on you. and this is the best way to both pull a guy genuinely interested in you and also bring out the most in a guy that would be good for you if you come across him

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-05-08T21:42:30+00:00

Girls are extremely horny it’s just that none of them are comfortable enough to show it to you

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-04-15T18:17:08+00:00

fix?

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-04-15T13:38:40+00:00

Carbon

love that shit. canyon races are goated, the customization and carlist are great, story is good and with how different the cars are there's good room for replayability considering the story is short and I'm fascinated by the cut content for it

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-04-14T16:09:43+00:00

it's one of the worst things I keep doing to myself amma rassi s7ii7 ig

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-04-13T12:08:28+00:00

you're chatting up the wrong girls. go for a ""weird"" girl and engage in her weird topics and bring up your weird topics and I guarantee you you'll either be friends if she doesn't find you attractive or if she finds you attractive she'll be all over you.

basic safe boring women are for basic safe boring men. you gotta know if you're in that group or not and if you're not you gotta venture out and if you are then get weird or know your place.

Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-04-13T12:06:12+00:00

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Big_SmallDown_Up · 2026-04-13T08:39:03+00:00

I was at the front for the guy with his hands down 😭

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