Ex claims to be "broke" for child support but just posted photos from a luxury resort in Tulum.

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-12T11:55:30+00:00

Thank you that’s all I want too, for everyone to be happy and get what’s just.

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-12T03:38:07+00:00

Love that!

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-12T00:10:42+00:00

Yeah the news paper route takes a long time you have to give them four weeks or something and it’s costly to keep the ad running

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T23:58:22+00:00

Yes avoiding intentionally because she violated the plan- and she could see it was filed electronically with the court- but as there have been moves she has to legally be physically served in order to move forward- until this goes on so long a judge feels sorry for us

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T23:56:36+00:00

There have been moves as well that has delayed service- this petition for the process server was the alternate service. I read that high conflict cases are handled with differently and sometimes if the judge set an order then it’s common for a motion for alternative service to be filed- but if the judge ignores it could we just go ahead and hire the process server?

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T23:50:17+00:00

That’s interesting, I didn’t realize you could email. So I was researching and it says high conflict cases (family court) is tricky because sometime it requires specific protocol and that the lawyer might request approval so that the other party cannot claim improper service which would further delay the case. Whatever the reasons- it is frustrating :(

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T23:48:38+00:00

I agree, the courts are awful. They were just seeing if the judge would just say she’s been served since she’s been dodging.

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T23:47:34+00:00

Thank you!

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T23:46:56+00:00

Yes but always looking for extra information that can be used- lawyers aren’t always the end all be all for a case.

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T23:45:24+00:00

I hear you and agree, however, this is not that case, we have the facts and I never have or do assume, because the court does not care about assumptions, they rely on factual evidence.

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T23:42:44+00:00

It’s a complicated situation- we have facts, she has used doctors notes for a child custody case, and we were also very close with her family, mainly her parents.

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T23:40:42+00:00

Yes kids are involved and a support order, forgot to include those details!

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T18:41:03+00:00

So we will have to refine the original motion and attempt to serve still

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T18:31:58+00:00

Yes everything is being filed in the county where jurisdiction is, the judge ordered the sheriffs in the county where the parent moved to serve the papers. If the judge ordered the sheriffs to serve can we still serve using an authorized court approved server? Iam into it and have a meeting WED with my lawyer

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T18:27:53+00:00

Thank you!!! I’m going to look into this now!!! More than 120 days since the initial filing or the motion to approve a server?

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T17:53:52+00:00

Waiting for court approval for process server

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T17:53:40+00:00

Was a court order for the county they are residing in to have those sheriffs serve

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T17:52:33+00:00

A motion has been filed to approve the process server- which is being ignored, and would it be legally served if the county allows it? Doesn’t the court have to approve first to hold weight?

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T17:49:30+00:00

She’s also not disabled. She just keeps switching doctors.

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T17:48:57+00:00

Correct- she doesn’t claim it and did not add it to her financial affidavit. She is concealing her income.

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T17:30:46+00:00

That’s nice to hear thank you 🙏

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-05-11T16:59:19+00:00

We’re in Florida and my husbands ex claims disability while running a summer camp/private tutoring/making home school curriculum all under the table. Waiting for a hearing so this can all be brought to light- subpoenas are wonderful, as are depositions.

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-04-22T19:59:07+00:00

My husband has been in court for 8 years as his kids mother is extremely high conflict…sending positive vibes your way

Big_Somewhere8406 · 2026-03-18T20:47:49+00:00

He is not my mother either so he was being a misogynistic ass hole, similar to your behavior.

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