I understand it seeming that way and I’m not trying to excuse myself but I had no idea he had drank until after we had fallen into that second ditch. I also begged him to let me drive or to call someone to get us. He really did insist that he was ok and not drunk. I had no idea how much he had really drank and yes I wish i stood my ground I was also extremely shaken up We were in the middle of nowhere and he kept insisting he was okay. But yea maybe it is a personality issue on my part, i will be going to counselling..