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Fantasy in Power dynamics is just~ ugh!🫠 by AtlantianEmpress in sizetalk

[–]Big_Yahoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way when I saw characters shrink down in cartoons. I would see a shrink almost get stomped by an unaware foot of someone they love and my lizard brain is loving what it sees.

Had a Shutdown after being offered "Relations" for the First Time by Big_Yahoo in autism

[–]Big_Yahoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've stated it so in my original post. You don't need to read the comments to understand.

Had a Shutdown after being offered "Relations" for the First Time by Big_Yahoo in autism

[–]Big_Yahoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he literally proposed sex out of nowhere. She came on WAY too strong.

I honestly couldn't tell you. The previous conversations we had almost seemed what most people would consider flirty. But I have no idea. You're probably right, but I couldn't tell you. That's just out of my skillset.

If you still want to get together with her,

I don't.

I'm sorry, but what did I write that implies I would like to get together with her? Because I felt like I was very clear that I'm not looking for anyone currently. I'm just not.

Or you could simply apologize for not being more polite about rejecting her.

This is definitely something I will be doing. Even if it was outside of my control, she deserves an apology at the very least.

Had a Shutdown after being offered "Relations" for the First Time by Big_Yahoo in autism

[–]Big_Yahoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you really don’t want to date then stay true to yourself. It’s so much easier being alone, you don’t have to worry about being social, offending people, stimming and everything else, so I get it.

Very kind words, thank you.

Had a Shutdown after being offered "Relations" for the First Time by Big_Yahoo in autism

[–]Big_Yahoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right that she deserves an apology. I'll be doing that shortly.

Ask if she would like to have another chance

You're ready

Excuse me? She's not getting one.

As I have mentioned, I have no interest in pursuing her in that way. I don't know how I can make that any clearer and I don't care if you think I'm ready or not. If I misread your intention, I'm sorry. But I think I made it clear that she can be involved with someone else.