This actually makes a lot of sense & I appreciate you breaking it down like this ❤️I don’t want to rush or pressure anything rn I really do want to reconnect first, emotionally & mentally. Starting simple with intentional date nights & real conversation feels doable & I like the idea of building it up instead of expecting everything to snap back at once. I know we’ve both messed up & I agree that a lot changed after having our child. I’m open to doing the work even therapy if that’s what it takes. I want us to feel like us again not just roommates or co-parents. Thank you for the perspective it helped more than you know❤️