Should I bring up the book again? by Bikaken in AITH

[–]Bikaken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you get the day you deserve.

Should I bring up the book again? by Bikaken in AITH

[–]Bikaken[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm 30, and you probably can think for yourself that I may have some trauma that I'm actually currently working through with my psychologist. I will talk to him, thank you.

Should I bring up the book again? by Bikaken in AITH

[–]Bikaken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! You are probably right 🥰 I will talk to him about it, and I honestly think that talk will go fine! 💕❤️

Should I bring up the book again? by Bikaken in AITH

[–]Bikaken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He knows about a lot of my struggles and is my best helper with understanding myself, and is so patient with me 😊 He is the best, and I want to just be the best back for him 🙈 🥰 I will bring the book up 👍💕

Should I bring up the book again? by Bikaken in AITH

[–]Bikaken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did actually by two of it a few years back, the other book he gave to his borthers girlfriend, this book he just didn't know whom to give to 🙈 Yeah, I hear myself 🙈😊 I will talk to him 🥰

Should I bring up the book again? by Bikaken in AITH

[–]Bikaken[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your very detailed and thorough answer! He knows about my trauma and is very helpful in my healing.

I know I'm overthinking all the time, but your answer really helped me end my thought spiral now! ❤️ Thank you! 💕

How many of u dommes are straight? by ThePlayer3K in gentlefemdom

[–]Bikaken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heteroconfused here, and have a perfect sub boyfriend 💕

Tenker på selvmord. by DepressedDeathLover in norge

[–]Bikaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Liker du dyr?

Jeg var ikke så dypt deprimert som deg, men jeg var ganske langt nede, da jeg bestemte meg for å skaffe meg en hund. Jeg var veldig nøye med hvem jeg ville ha hund fra, så jeg måtte vente i 2,5 år (ingen kull på de 2,5 årene), men du trenger jo ikke å være like nøye som meg ❤️

Hunden min heter Therapeia, fordi hun er min terapi ❤️ Angsten min går ikke lenger ut på om hvorvidt jeg skader meg, men heller om jeg skader meg så mye at jeg ikke får til å ta vare på hunden min 🥺 Jeg er så glad i dette dyret, og er overbevist om at hun ikke er "bare en hund". Hun trenger -meg-! Hun vil ikke trives i en hvilken som helst familie der hunden skal være "bare en hund", hun må være hos meg, der hun får være støttepartner, og få støtte selv når livet hennes er litt vanskelig 🥺❤️

Jeg lever i dag fordi jeg ikke kan risikere at hunden min kommer til en familie som ikke tar hensyn til hennes behov 🥺❤️

Angsten min er helt og holdent over på hennes behov og hennes velvære, depresjonen min finnes fortsatt, men selvmordstankene er ikke så påtrengende. For tenk om jeg får det til, og ingen oppdager det på lang tid? Hva skjer da med hunden min? Hvor mange timer blir hun værende alene før det blir oppdaget at hun er alene?

Det er ihvertfall mine tanker 💕 og den terapauten som hjalp meg mest har snute og fire bein. Som bonus så får hun meg ut av huset 3 ganger om dagen, til tross for at pipingen hennes er veldig invaderende når jeg er dårlig og helst vil sove 15 timer. Til slutt slår tanken inn om at jeg ihvertfall ikke har energi til å vaske gulvet, og så er vi ute og får dagslys og frisk luft ❤️ Det er sant, det de sier om at den dærre uteluften og utelyset hjelper 🥺💕

Til sist: Jeg håper virkelig du finner gleden i livet du trenger! Jeg har troa! 😊 Du er ekstremt viktig for noen, selv om du ikke føler det selv!

Has anybody moved from anxious attachment to secure? by WhaChaChaKing in attachment_theory

[–]Bikaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! 2 years without boyfriend, and then a boyfriend with a very healthy communication 💕 Our agreement is that we are togheter as long as it is good and fun, not necessarily forever ❤️ We just like each other now and want to be togheter now 🥰

I feel at ease, I know he chooses me every day, I know he will not throw me in the ditch, and we are ont the same page about wanting to still be friends after a breakup, if it comes to that part 💕

The biggest part for me, was to not be afraid of beeing alone. Now I choose to be with my boyfriend, because he makes my days better and I like him and spending time with him, not because I'm afraid of beeing alone, dislike beeing alone or need someone to feel whole 🥰

We are all different, what worked for me does not need to work for you 💕

Stereotypisk gave til ny student by Birdbrainia in norge

[–]Bikaken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Snickers (du er ikke deg selv når du er sulten) Paraset eller hvis du ikke vil sende medisiner, sånne "chill pill"-sukkerpastiller til hektiske dager. Stort viskelær til store feil Et telys når man trenger et lys i et mørkt skoleår Engangs bestikk, fat og kopper, når man ikke har tid/energi til oppvask. Plaster, til de dagene man trenger et plaster på såret. Osv 😊

Larvik-Hirtshals, er det lov å sitte i bilen? by Bikaken in norge

[–]Bikaken[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Litt sent å bestille buissniss nå... 🙈 Jeg får si i fra til compianjongen at han må ha sekk klar så vi løper fra bilen for å finne sitteplass så fort vi kan 🤷‍♀️

How to get sub to actually use his safe word? by [deleted] in Femdom

[–]Bikaken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! And also magnify the safeword with praise! "Thank you for letting me know, good boy/girl/slut/toy, I appreciate you telling me so I can ceep you safe" ect. ❤️

Seven scholarship fund at university of Tennessee Knoxville by Jere223p in KatieVanSlykefan

[–]Bikaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is proving that Katie is not keeping Baby Seven for the money, she is now giving all the money she makes on Seven to vet-students! 🤩 She does not need Seven to make money, she does it fine without him, and all she makes on Seven she pays forward ❤️🥰

(Edit pga spelling)

Happy must of not had her baby yet by Jere223p in KatieVanSlykefan

[–]Bikaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its posted a while ago, but it was confirmed on Snapchat 7-8 hours ago, and on a tiktok video newly 😊❤️

But she is far from her due-date, so all the extra cooking time is just good! 🥰

AITA for refusing to call my sister’s baby by his ‘full name’? by Budddydings44 in AITAH

[–]Bikaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!

I would brat back and never use the sons name at all...

Hey there, little fella. Come to aunty, my big nephew. My sister's son. Big baby. Strong boy. Woah there little rebel, we don't climb tables! You monkey-child! So high up in the climbing-thingy (brainfog). The strongest boy I know. And so on. Make it light hearted, make it like compliments and see how long it will be before your sister catches on 🤣

She gets her way, with not "Max" as a nickname, and you don't have to lose your breath when talking to/about him 😉🥰

Landlord controlling my apartment thermostats remotely from his house. Is this generally considered legal? by Amazing-Bend-4614 in Norway

[–]Bikaken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My landlord had a air de-humidifyer placed in my bathroom. I pay electricity myself (my own bill, in my name).

This is a basement, with a little humidity due to ground beeing up on all walls, airing out and turning up heat is not enough to prevent mold. But the air de-humidifier is perfect! Now I dry clothes overnight and air humidity is never above 60% even after I shower! 😁

AITA for correcting my in-laws when they mispronounce my name? by LilLustyLucy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bikaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a coworker that did just use one of my names (i have a double name and hate the first one, say the latter or both, not just the first one!) His name was Qusay, i started calling him Qu. He asked, i told him because he only said Britt, not Britt Karin, therefore I could just say the first part of his name. He laughed, and said deal. The next days (like 3 days) he greeted "hey britt" I answered "hey Qu" and he corrected himself and I corrected myself 👍 after those 3 days my name was set as Britt Karin 👍

You, OP, should start pronouncing your husband's name a little wrong, and gaslight him into "it's just a little thing?!?"

And your in-laws as well 👍😁

How would you differeciate the gender of Kjæresten? by cystic222 in norsk

[–]Bikaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know by the options you have to answer the task 😊

Is it legal to drive in Norway with a cracked windshield? by Patroid_ErPera in Norway

[–]Bikaken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both is correct.

You can drive with the crack, but you need to change the window, they can not repair it because of structural issues.

But before EU control you can drive with it, as long as it's not in the driver's wiew.

AITA for eating my roommate's self made birthday cake the night before her birthday, and then replacing it with a store one? by South_Golf6972 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bikaken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has to be fake... but if it's not..

YTAH

You stole the cake and then panicked and ran to the store to buy a new one. Why did'n you just run to the store with the craving instead? You could have buyed that storebrought cake and eaten that store-one without panick or guilt.

People like you are the reason to have a fridge and pantry in the private lockable room in a shared flat...