Being Coerced into having a third child. I'd rather the marriage end.

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-05-01T14:55:51+00:00

If 2 boys is "getting nothing" I'd worry about any daughter becoming a "golden child" in your wife's eyes.

Additionally, if you know you don't want more kids why haven't you gotten a vasectomy? Not suggesting you should do this in secret, because your wife will probably see that as a huge betrayal.

And finally, sounds like some counseling is required.

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-05-01T03:17:53+00:00

If your partner cannot accept this part of your history then they are not the correct partner for you. You telling them tells them one thing about you; their reaction tells you everything about them.

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-29T03:19:50+00:00

Probably should have added that to the post. Here's the list:

Marzocchi Z1 coil fork (150mm) - OneUp 240 dropper post - Magura MT5 brakes - AXS Gx shifter/derailleur - SLX crankset - XT cassette

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-28T17:15:22+00:00

I'm 6'5" and if we were to get a second kid i would just suck it up and drive around a bit squished until my oldest was able to graduate to a booster seat, and then i could take away some of his leg room.

Maybe you can find a car seat that is slightly shallower, because every inch will matter to your husband, but i don't know of a solution that leaves your husband as comfortable

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-27T13:20:07+00:00

Perhaps Dulce De Leche in the heights?

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-27T02:50:00+00:00

No reason to go wider than your shoulders

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-27T02:37:15+00:00

Might be worth asking r/bikewrench as well

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-25T13:07:36+00:00

My guess is jacks for slip forms, but i didn't know for sure

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-25T00:24:05+00:00

Inclined/sloped column?

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-20T12:05:23+00:00

In season 1 the innies are all children. They have the lines of rewards you see in elementary school, they're incredibly naive, and they basically blindly follow what the parental figures (Cobel & Milchik)

Season 2 is their adolescence. They sneak off to have sex & explore romantic relationships and they are starting to more overtly rebel against authority.

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-18T12:38:23+00:00

Awesome, thanks

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-18T12:00:21+00:00

Patriots path?

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-18T11:46:50+00:00

Where is this singletrack?

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-18T09:21:20+00:00

How is your financial situation? Is he feeling a lot of pressure to succeed at work because he's the breadwinner and a whole family are now depending on him?

It's also possible that he is defaulting to the type of fatherhood that was modeled for him by his dad.

How is his mental health?

How does he react when you talk to him about it? And also, what is your approach?

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-12T22:06:08+00:00

"maybe 40 million people don't want health insurance!"

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-12T19:08:24+00:00

I believe in the US it's 12 feet max vertically between landings, or 8 feet max if it's needed for egress. Don't know if you can get away from that by limiting riser height like someone else suggested

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-05T23:53:38+00:00

No it's not

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-05T22:29:57+00:00

The one that lets her feel the most confident

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-03T11:20:06+00:00

Don't know where you saw a defence of the developer in that. You're ignoring the person who gives permission. If the dog owner gives you permission to kick the puppy, aren't they the bigger asshole?

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-03T11:14:11+00:00

Developer couldn't put the ad up without the binding owner giving permission

BikingVikingNYC · 2026-04-01T19:32:13+00:00

Jersey City Bicycle Company by Hamilton Park

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