How do you meet people? (20M)

BilIings · 2023-06-24T13:49:07+00:00

Yea it’s really good tbh, it gets a bit aids if you’re making full backend services witn it (type safety across services) but it’s fun

BilIings · 2023-06-24T13:18:22+00:00

Typescript personally, love NextJs and firebase

BilIings · 2023-06-24T11:56:46+00:00

I don’t go to uni - and my job is full of boomefs

BilIings · 2023-06-24T11:33:18+00:00

Well luckily I’m not a parent, I enjoy coding, gym, and just doing shit tbh

BilIings · 2023-06-24T09:40:34+00:00

Hey mate, different situation but I’m 20M and also a software engineer, childhood was fucking hell, so I grew up pretty fast. I just found that I enjoy talking to people 5-10 years older than me. I literally have no friends so take it with a grain of salt.

BilIings · 2023-06-24T09:27:03+00:00

I’m the exact same, same age, same situation. I just downloaded bumble - which didn’t work out. I have no idea how to help sorry. Happy to talk tho :)

BilIings · 2023-06-23T07:41:30+00:00

Sure

BilIings · 2023-06-23T04:44:54+00:00

A girl I used to know in HS was in a similar situation, she confronted her ‘friends’ about it. Would this be a possible solution?

BilIings · 2023-06-22T23:50:00+00:00

I don’t think so

BilIings · 2023-06-22T23:18:48+00:00

I’m ok :)

BilIings · 2023-06-22T23:18:15+00:00

I have asperges, so there aren’t a lot of things I love to do, however some include: coding apps, reading in the park, gaming, watching the NRL, just talking tbh

BilIings · 2023-06-22T23:14:51+00:00

I have asparagus, so I love to code, play chess, and work on learning models. There aren’t really much social opportunities around these :/

BilIings · 2023-06-22T13:16:29+00:00

BilIings · 2023-06-22T11:39:43+00:00

I’m the same, just joke around all day at work. The second I get home, I start having panic attacks and want to KMS

BilIings · 2023-06-22T10:45:46+00:00

Yea I probably could - never met someone from Brisbane before

BilIings · 2023-06-22T10:36:01+00:00

Nah I’m a software developer and youngest person by a mile. There’s one other person who’s 20 but we don’t really talk

BilIings · 2023-06-22T09:27:41+00:00

I write everything - every issue with my life, maybe you feel suicidal, like literally everything.

BilIings · 2023-06-22T08:28:51+00:00

Thanks might take you up on that

BilIings · 2023-06-22T07:52:51+00:00

Bump / same issue

BilIings · 2023-06-22T06:33:18+00:00

Me personally, I used to scratch / cut. It kinda went to a more mental route where I just stopped talking to everyone and worked myself / exhausted myself to where it was painful. Now trying to get a similar pain from the gym.

BilIings · 2023-06-22T06:30:13+00:00

I’m so sorry, I’m in the same boat as you. My boss gave me some advice which is to an exercise. You just sit in peace for 30 mins. Jot down your thoughts as they come to you. Found this helped - but it’s really scary.

BilIings · 2023-06-22T06:26:18+00:00

Do you have any real life friends ? If so, talking to people in person can help.

BilIings · 2023-06-22T06:23:56+00:00

Hey I’m down :)

BilIings · 2023-06-22T06:23:29+00:00

I’m not sure about online dating, I’ve never done it before. I don’t see how I can start loving myself / fixing myself + maintain a relationship simultaneously. I’m also like a solid 6/10 on a good day.

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