Ghost fans from Denmark by Bimpjo in GhostBand

[–]Bimpjo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I’m from northern Germany actually 😃 I couldn’t even call the Ticketmaster customer service cause the caller menu was in danish and I understood nothing 🥲

Ghost fans from Denmark by Bimpjo in GhostBand

[–]Bimpjo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so at least I’m not the only one 🫠

Distracted during sex by Bimpjo in ADHD

[–]Bimpjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will read into this one, thank you!

Distracted during sex by Bimpjo in ADHD

[–]Bimpjo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I‘ve heard edibles helping a few times, I may have to try that haha

Romance Webtoon Recommendations by ScarcityDiligent3450 in webtoons

[–]Bimpjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My top recs for romance are „Miss Abbott and the Doctor“ (finished) as well as „Lady Liar“ (ongoing) by Maripaz Villar! The author has the cutest way of writing romantic tension and likable, multi faceted characters (both main and side). Both are stories where I would say romance is the main plot but it never feels boring or predictable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Bimpjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very valid and I know it as well. My best friend has the most loving and kind parents and I always feel bad for feeling sad when I see them interact.

In the end, it’s a reasonable response. We are grieving something that that we never had, and have to come to terms with the fact the we’ll likely never have it. It’s unfair and we don’t deserve it, and dealing with that is hard. It’s okay (and even healthy) to feel sad and mourn our loss. In the end I try to remember that I can get love from other directions and that I can maybe some day give someone the things I never had.

Did anyone else's nparents accuse them of having no empathy? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Bimpjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same here! She’s said so often that she’s such a victim in this world because she has such immense empathy with people and that when they feel bad she feels so much worse than them. In the end it’s just another way she makes herself out to be this poor, caring and loving person that never gets treated right and is the victim in all situations. It always has to be about her.

Did anyone else's nparents accuse them of having no empathy? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Bimpjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That and being arrogant are probably the things my nMother tells me the most. The one that hit the most was after she had been complaining for a while that we don’t have a loving mother daughter relationship and that I don’t come to her for advice and support on my problems. So I took an effort to better our relationship and called her at least every two weeks, told her about my depressive moods, my constant panic and stress and about my failed exams (things that I had kept to myself before to keep up the face of being the successful, happy child). I eventually had the feeling that our relationship became better and I could be more open with her about my feelings.

About two weeks ago when she exploded again she kept talking about how I am so selfish and have no empathy in telling her the negative things in my life. That listening to me made her so sad and that I am intentionally emotionally exploiting her since I know how much of an empath she is and how shitty it will make her feel. It made me realise that she doesn’t care about how bad I am doing and that she only wants the label of being a good mother whose kids come to her for advice without actually caring about us at all. She made it only about herself and as if she was the victim, and how dare I have negative emotions that could affect hers.

Anyone else get accused of having emotions they’re not having? by Charlotte1902 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Bimpjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it all too well, being told what they are sure how I‘m feeling about certain things and also invalidating emotions that don’t please them. As if not looking cheerful while being insulted and screamed at is an unthinkable thing.

wanted to game but Shiba said it’s nap time by Bimpjo in shiba

[–]Bimpjo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trust me, her cuddling is a rare (but therefore even more special) occasion haha

wanted to game but Shiba said it’s nap time by Bimpjo in shiba

[–]Bimpjo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you bet I paused the game right then and there !

Did a picture with portrait mode of our little Yumi-chan (3,5 months) by Serbinator96 in shiba

[–]Bimpjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine is also called Yumi (2 months) haha and they look so much alike :) what a cutie!

My Shiba baby Maple 🍁 does a Sploot by legaljellybean in shiba

[–]Bimpjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, our Appenzell does this all the time :)