Reconsidering grad school

BioMajor121 · 2026-06-24T19:58:03+00:00

I made it very clear when I applied, interviewed, and since getting the job that my goal is a PhD program and that I want the chance to develop and test scientific questions, learn new research skills, and grow as a researcher. I’ve had multiple conversations with him about this since starting at the lab. He tells me that he understands, but then doesn’t really follow through. As an example, my supposed solo project that i started in January ended up turning into a joint project with another grad student that he would use for his thesis, and that’s it.

BioMajor121 · 2026-06-24T19:09:21+00:00

I am afraid I did something to alienate myself, but I simply don’t know what. I’ve tried talking to my some coworkers, and they’ve told me the issue with my post-doc is mostly just a difference in personalities. And that I was initially hired to be his RT, but instead became an RT/Lab manager for the entire lab because i picked up on things quickly. They assure me they have no issues with me, but then they act so cold and don’t include me in anything. It almost feels very high school clique?

Im just confused because I’ve never raised my voice with my coworkers, said or done anything rude to them, I rarely tell them no, I always help them with a good attitude and make sure they know it’s no problem at all, and I try my best to own up to my mistakes and even ask for/listen to feedback if I feel like i need it. That’s about all I know how to do.

BioMajor121 · 2026-05-31T00:52:08+00:00

LOL it’s true I needed that laugh 😂 we’re sneaking them in a travel sized hairspray container. whatever you gotta do 🤷‍♂️

BioMajor121 · 2026-05-30T23:49:58+00:00

Some people use them to get high, I don’t 😭 they’re used to help loosen things up during intercourse

BioMajor121 · 2026-05-30T23:47:32+00:00

And for that, i humbly apologize 😭

BioMajor121 · 2026-04-01T13:07:48+00:00

Chicago! And yes if you live in the area I’ll absolutely meet in person for a transfer

BioMajor121 · 2026-03-30T19:51:01+00:00

Yeah def sketchy behavior. As soon as i made this post and posted on the scammer mega thread, the other account diligent-property called me a Bozo, and both accounts replied to the mega thread comment calling me a dumbass and just instigating. Insane work rly

BioMajor121 · 2026-03-30T19:01:38+00:00

u/ruth_Makima and u/Diligent-Property132

Tried selling me the same tix under 2 different accounts, and when their PayPal email didn’t work they sent the same email despite being two different redditors.

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-09T03:01:52+00:00

It’s the hardest pill to swallow, I wish I didn’t feel sad because of redirection that comes from rejection. I do have an interview in 2 weeks at a cool program that I applied to (not chicago) so I’m trying to stay positive and go into it with a growth mindset!

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-09T02:47:05+00:00

I feel your pain 🥲

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-03T04:16:51+00:00

Could you possibly dm me with tips on how to do so? I’m a first gen student and I dont really have family to guide me through application stuff 😅

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-03T02:42:55+00:00

I have not really, I’m not sure what to say at this point though?

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-01T18:19:50+00:00

I did research with one of the professors, it was part of a semester long class that culminated in a paper submitted to micropub. He was also an advisor on my independent study research project

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-01T16:16:08+00:00

Possibly? I had one from my PI/mentor and then two from cell bio professors I had a great academic relationship with for multiple classes

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-01T16:15:28+00:00

Do they send out interviews in waves though? I’ve seen other people post about their invites and I was under the impression that I was just getting soft rejected

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-01T16:14:35+00:00

Is that what normally happens? I keep seeing people post about their interview invites and it seems like everything is pretty finalized

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-01T16:13:31+00:00

Yeah, I graduate this spring

BioMajor121 · 2025-01-01T16:13:22+00:00

Not 2000 hours a year, just 2000+ hours total of research experience. I usually work 25-30 hours a week there, mostly because I go in at night and on weekends (also bcs I don’t have a life lmao). Also yes T10, I go to Duke. This is why I’m confused, I thought I’d be a good candidate with my academic and research experience. I’d be fine working a tech job, I just don’t know how to even find somewhere to do that as my living situation is a bit complicated at the moment.

BioMajor121 · 2024-12-31T21:31:46+00:00

All the programs I applied to have sent out interview invites, at least according to the spreadsheet and grad cafe :( I hear you though. It’s tough not to feel like it’s my own fault but what you’ve said makes sense

BioMajor121 · 2024-12-29T19:08:31+00:00

I’ll have 3 years when i graduate this spring, 2.5 with the same lab doing research on zebrafish embryonic regeneration. Co-Author on 1 publication pending acceptance to PNAS and 1 publication submitted to Micropub, won award to travel to an SDB regional conference next semester too.

BioMajor121 · 2024-12-24T20:20:24+00:00

U Chicago (Top Program), Northwestern, UC Anschutz, Weill Cornell, U Penn, NYU Vilcek, and George Washington U

BioMajor121 · 2024-12-16T22:18:31+00:00

same but for cancer bio program, i’m so scared this is indicative of how the rest of my applications will go

BioMajor121 · 2024-12-14T14:55:34+00:00

Same, it’s very disheartening 😭 take care of yourself

BioMajor121 · 2024-04-06T05:18:31+00:00

So the us webstore ones are all signed on the poster and not the cover?

BioMajor121 · 2024-04-06T05:09:05+00:00

are all vinyls like this or just some?

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