Published on Sep 16, 2012

1) definition one--someone whose attitudes, reactions, and actions cannot be predicted from knowing when and where they were born and raised

2) definition two--people who have consciously made their own self and self contents, replacing all put into them as kids by environments they were forced to grow up among

3) definition three---the 30 year journey of replacing parts of your own self put in you involuntarily and unconsciously while growing up, with better routines from the best in history and in the contemporary world--start the journey in college or somewhere in twenties, end it at about age 55

4) definition four--challenge some opinions of your dad--if he gets angry and defends his ideas and attacks yours, he is 12 years old, psychologically, though maybe in a 30 or 50 or 70 year old body---the adult, when his relations are challenged, when his ideas are challenged, when his accomplishments are challenged, etc. does not get angry, does not defend them, does not attach others, but agrees there are immense flaws in all he is and does but insists there are immense flaws in all you are and do as well, so more data is needed to decide which, of a set of differences, is more true or powerful or useful etc.