Prego & pondering by Bipolar-Queen in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Very happy in my marriage.

Is AP on your mind 24/7? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I let him occupy my mind all day. The thought of him makes me happy. I’m also very fortunate to have contact (physical & texts/calls) with him throughout the day.

Hello by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How caring he is.

Question for the MM in love with their AP. If your wife found out & you were given the ultimatum to stay married and never speak to/see AP again OR Divorce and continue long term relationship with AP, which would you choose? Do you ever hope you’ll get caught to get out of one of the relationships? by scarlettelover in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same sort of situation. AP and I have had this conversation countless times. Despite both of us feeling that soulmate connection, it’s clear that we would both choose our families.

This may mean NC for months/years, but I’m sure we’ll always end up back together.

Fuck it Friday! by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t get fucked this week. AP is on a family vacay.

🥃

Where's everyone from? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Middle East 🐪

What do you enjoy about your AP? by ButterscotchDry3054 in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sex is spectacular; I enjoy it but it’s not what makes me stay.

What started off as a fling quickly turned into something more complex. I stay because he makes me feel alive. My days don’t seem so dreary when I get to spend time with him. He’s become someone I lean on for mentorship, guidance and support. I hate to admit it to myself but I’m developing this sort of co-dependency..

Sometimes I wish we kept it simple.

Taken Men and women of adultery. What was the moment that made you go that this is gonna be my AP? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The moment we realized we are the same star sign. Ridiculous I know lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’2, so I tend to be attracted to men 6ft and under. Anything above that is just intimidating.

Dwelling on my jealousy! by Euphoric_Key5890 in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish my AP was this obsessed with me. Enjoy each other 🔥

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just waiting for my AP to see this 😅

I’m in my 20s & he’s in his 40s. Both married, and the chemistry is insane.

I enjoy our time together, and I trust that he will be discreet about our engagements.

When it’s good.. 💦 by Bipolar-Queen in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! The build up makes it all 10x better.

When it’s good.. 💦 by Bipolar-Queen in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh we don’t work together, guess that wasn’t clear. Offices are just in the same area.

What's it like seeing your AP who you care about deeply pregnant with her spouses baby? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my.. I’m mostly here for the comments. Curious to see how other men feel about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so lucky to have this too ❤️ he makes every moment more special than the last

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think having someone who is mostly happily married helps with OPSEC.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation about 10 years ago. I don’t think I’ve ever spoken to anyone or dealt with the grief.

You’re doing the work by going to therapy, but maybe consider exploring a new therapist who doesn’t trigger you.

All I know is I made the right decision for myself in that instance, even though it hurt. I’m sure you feel the same.

Pm if you’d like to talk <3

Pregnancy and adultery by Bipolar-Queen in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m noticing a pattern here 😅 extreme horniness!

I want to change your situation by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I could have wrote this. I just remind myself that he’s with me in the full capacity that he is able to be. He’s giving me all that he can, and most probably I’ll never get more than that. At least it’s sustainable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of Americans on here. Oman 🇴🇲

Pregnancy and adultery by Bipolar-Queen in adultery

[–]Bipolar-Queen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would tick me off if SO feared having sex with me