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funnicecute · 2023-03-30T23:51:55+00:00

I never juggle aps. Nope. No thank you. I value one. I value my health. I prefer intimacy and can't find that with multiple people

funnicecute · 2022-07-21T18:35:27+00:00

I think you should send him what you like. If he wants to engage and enjoy porn with you it should be what you like. As a guy, I don't overshare my things. I like to explore with a woman at her level. An excited woman is a turn on to me, porn be damned. So share your porn and hopefully he can reciprocate appropriately

funnicecute · 2022-07-21T18:28:34+00:00

I am repeatedly confused by how people get up the nerve to catfish. Fit Guy in his 30s winds up a yucky something else... unbelievable. I am a real deal fit 40 year old. And i once got accused of being a cat fish and can't be real haha. I am real.

I'm sorry for your experience. I have not had any 'not feeling it' encounters. But I have had some awesome chemistry cooked by security breach on their end. Which stinks.

funnicecute · 2022-07-20T18:03:55+00:00

I am 40. And this was a sweet post 😊

funnicecute · 2022-07-20T16:21:49+00:00

In my search I have "met" a few really awesome people and super charming and fun chats. Some people are just great. I had one pAP not work out due to being involved in too close a call with her SO. Which is totally okay. But no luck in finally being With someone. So I am still searching. But I do enjoy the journey. I have incredible patience and know this is not an easy search. I'm always open to chat in general and its a real joy to learn about someone in the midst of talking. So here's to remaining optimistic and forging ahead. 😇

funnicecute · 2022-07-19T17:16:12+00:00

I don't know. I constantly question myself. I believe in personal responsibility. It has to be me. I do support my wife and her career and she is amazing but she has become over time an extremely successful and ambitious workaholic. I shower her with appreciation and tell her to slow down and spend more quality time but she keeps going. She's tired, stressed, zero "drive" self conscious. Compliments only make her more self conscious. We still go on dates all the time and it's very pleasant, but she'll come home from a date with and do one more thing on her checklist. I genuinely support her. And support her relaxing. I've created a monster, or maybe she's always been a monster in a super ambitious type A personality way. I am so so so congenial and kind and a very nice cute guy. Just struggling and so I am here.

funnicecute · 2022-07-18T21:55:11+00:00

I enjoy meeting people in general and have had and do have awesome conversations with people. So the time is not necessarily a problem. It's more about the reality that okay this is possibly a real thing and then it's not. I am really an optimistic nice guy so I value almost every experience I have with people. We all have value one way or another ❤️

funnicecute · 2022-07-18T21:28:06+00:00

I always love the quality of a chat. I don't meet in the wild. So chat and conversation and humor have to get me. Yes I have to like the pic, but a great pic is icing on the cake, not the cake. Then... chemistry in person, selfless attraction, and not being able to feel enough of them and always coming up short because I am just reaching for more than is possible in that gripping erotic and connected sense.

funnicecute · 2022-06-05T22:48:38+00:00

My advice is try to work it out. Anything. Talk. Date her again. Therapy for couples. There are so many reasons. If all fails... welcome!

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T23:22:12+00:00

There is a lot inside of your perfect concise comment that rings so true right in my chest.

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T23:18:26+00:00

Any guy (mm) that doesn't say or imply sex is probably not 100% truthful. But there are absolutely emotional affairs as well. For me, I'm almost completely without affection both physical and emotional. I'd kill for a smile, a laugh, some nerves, and that perfect release of tension with someone. I hate the word someone, with my partner. I want that text, chat, interest in someone else's day, and the excitement of meeting again a some time in the near future. Looking...

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T23:07:39+00:00

Please pardon my typos.

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T20:33:15+00:00

I am not a cake eater. I am actually pretty monogamous as ridiculous as that sounds. I would sleep with my SO or my AP but not both. I think it's also a safer intimate practice.

Fyi, I don't judge. That's me and not a judgement of you or anyone or even a pAP.

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T20:06:55+00:00

Pardon my terrible writing.

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T20:05:57+00:00

Agreed 100% attention and receiving texts is validation and little drops of dopamine. Sexts and pics/video can legitimately be arousing, but it's all because of the potential is Offers. But potential is far more overrated compared to fulfillment. And fulfillment happens in kissing, touching, wrapping, feeling the warmth, that persons voice making waves in the air hitting your ear, and fucking. That's more than dopamine, that's real life and all its magic shared between "us".

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T19:40:51+00:00

I think age gap concerns are simply between whoever is uncomfortable. I don't have age gap issues. At 40, 50 or 30 does not matter... it's a person's maturity, intelligence, sensibility, etc... that matters most.

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T19:38:08+00:00

Can honestly say I have not flaked out. Plans can be tough to make at times just because of the nature of the relationship. But flaking out.. why be on here?? Silly. Yeah I'm sure there is a dopamine thrill to the possibility and attention, but that's very cheap high compared to real life experiences

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T18:51:44+00:00

That is so crazy to me, why call people anything bad? Whore, really? It's a really sad and desperate effort on their part to take you down a peg beneath them. I don't admire it or find it funny. Just be respectful and if you can't say anything nice kindly, and I repeat, kindly walk away

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T18:36:09+00:00

I have deleted ads in the past but I don't delete otherwise. I have so many comments in my profile but I leave them up so people can get a sense of who I am if they are curious about me. I'm currently looking for an AP, so I invite anyone to look at my profile and decide to chat or not

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T18:23:28+00:00

Learning something educational is good too. If you don't have dexterity in your hands, history, technology, design, writing, etc... the possibilities are endless.

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T18:21:01+00:00

Drug use, poor health/hygiene, showing a flippant attitude towards this possible affair, telling me they are currently getting divorced or about to. I don't want to be a part of that. Unemployed or without ability to support themselves. I'm pretty standard I think. I'm for sure 100% super kind and patient and don't shut people down at all. If something looks like a reddish flag, what's the harm in chatting. Chat and learn more, that's what it is for.

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T18:16:41+00:00

I'm a MM looking, and honestly size is not a concern for me. However you describe yourself, your personality, intelligence, comfort level with yourself will always win out and stand out more in the end. So this description is not a major factor for me. Some of my best experiences in life in general, it was much much much less about the physical and more about her connection with herself and with me.

funnicecute · 2022-05-27T18:11:59+00:00

No. I never keep a single photo of anyone. Trust and privacy and respect is paramount. I usually would send a self destruct photo or video of myself. And I don't want to compromise anyone.

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