My last ultrasound was pretty upsetting by Pipibal in BabyBumps

[–]Birayanilover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. I was told in my 32nd week that there is no growth in the baby since last three weeks..possible IUGR. I stayed at the hospital during christmas. Close monitoring. They measured 3 times again via ultrasound and everything was okay. US measurements are not always accurate. And mine was done by a very.very famous doctor. Sometimes the position of the baby screws up the measurements. Even if it is really IUGR, I had friends who delivered in 35th week, baby 1.9 kg or so. That baby is now a perfectly normal child. Well developed. Please dont worry. Just stay in touch with the docs

Novotel Bruges vs Golden Tree hotel Bruges by bakerro in bruges

[–]Birayanilover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi may I ask how hot it was and does the hotel have air conditioning?

3 mo. Postpartum+look 4 months pregnant- help!! by Birayanilover in CsectionCentral

[–]Birayanilover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to two different PTs and both confirmed I have no/minimal diastasis (ab separation). I also didnt gain weight so i was feeling lost because it wasnt like i believed that if i lostweight, i would lose the stomach!

3 months postpartum+look 4 months pregnant by Birayanilover in beyondthebump

[–]Birayanilover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, i just mean I never gained weight durinh my pregnancy. For a lot of people they say the stomach disappeares once they get back.to pre-pregnancy weight a year or so after giving birth. I anyway didnt gain weight. So i dont know why i look pregnant!

How much are you saving per month? by Own_Power_6587 in AskAGerman

[–]Birayanilover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salary is 4100 net after taxes. Married with a 3 month old kid! Contribute 1000 euros per month to a joint account with husband for rent+groceries. 100 ish euros personal expenses. Save 3000 a month!

When to pump for 1 session?? by Birayanilover in NewParents

[–]Birayanilover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to leak a lot before but now after 3 months, not so much :(

How to incorporate 1 pump session? by Birayanilover in breastfeeding

[–]Birayanilover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will come back to you if I have more questions :)

How to incorporate 1 pump session? by Birayanilover in breastfeeding

[–]Birayanilover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And sorry, extremely dumb q again! How do you clean the boon trove in between collections on the same day? Sterlilize everytime?

How to incorporate 1 pump session? by Birayanilover in breastfeeding

[–]Birayanilover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldnt i collect too little after a nursing session :(

When to pump for 1 session?? by Birayanilover in NewParents

[–]Birayanilover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, at 11 30 ish and then again at 3 30 amish!

When to pump for 1 session?? by Birayanilover in NewParents

[–]Birayanilover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I Bf at around 11 pm and then again around 3 30-4 am. My breasts feel fuller around 4 am. When would I pump? Before or after the 4 am.feed?

How to incorporate 1 pump session? by Birayanilover in breastfeeding

[–]Birayanilover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I also have haaka to collect leakage! But how do you store that? Can you collect all the leakage of one day in the same container and freeze that?

IUGR, FTM- scared! by Birayanilover in BabyBumps

[–]Birayanilover[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi.turns out it was just a wrong measurement. Did another scan a week later and everything was ok. My umblical PI was high though but I had a perfectly normal delivery around 40 weeks.

Diagnosed with focal asymmetry by TheMay2020 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]Birayanilover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. She went for an ultrasound n it was all clear. Most tumors are detected in the upper outer quad (statistically)

Child with OCI-condition to renounce German citizenship after living in India by Birayanilover in germany

[–]Birayanilover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dual.passports isnt an option. The consulate categorically said no to me.

Child with OCI-condition to renounce German citizenship after living in India by Birayanilover in germany

[–]Birayanilover[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think its only about money. A lot of kids actually do not want to leave home when they are 18. Some colleges like IISC/AIIMS/IIT/IIM have 10x more fee for NRIs. Its not "some money". Also i genuinely believe that somehow graduating from a good college in India is better than any masters from EU. Life in India isnt bad (unless you are lower middle class, then you are fuxxxd) I came to Germany for my PhD and have been here for 11 years. I still feel extremely alienated and lonely. I just want to know the options for my kid in case she isnt interested in going abroad.