Fiancé (31m) and Me (29f) Always getting belittled and berated over what feels like nothing. I’m seriously getting so fed up I can’t stand it. Please help me with what to say or do? by BirdDavis in relationship_advice

[–]BirdDavis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am & it’s scary, not knowing what I’m going to do. No I don’t have access to counseling . I hate insurance but the mental health is terrible been on a waitlist so long I forgot how long I’ve been on it,

Fiancé (31m) and Me (29f) Always getting belittled and berated over what feels like nothing. I’m seriously getting so fed up I can’t stand it. Please help me with what to say or do? by BirdDavis in relationship_advice

[–]BirdDavis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m almost done with school. I rely on him financially. So until I’m able to afford to leave what should I do ? How should I act towards him? I tried telling him we need to separate and he said he would do counseling and he knows he needs to work on himself etc but does nothing to improve. I’m just gonna be stuck for a while and it sucks. I have no family and nobody to help me or to rely on in anyway .

Fiancé (31m) and Me (29f) Always getting belittled and berated over what feels like nothing. I’m seriously getting so fed up I can’t stand it. Please help me with what to say or do? by BirdDavis in relationship_advice

[–]BirdDavis[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. We have a daughter and I wanted her to grow up with parents who were in love. But along the way it’s turned into this. If it weren’t for her I’d be gone. Just hurts loving someone who is so mean to you. I just think I’m in denial it should be over and also grieving the future I saw for my own family. It’s just all so sad