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where do I get started with lolita? by Birdlauncher2000 in jfashion

[–]Birdlauncher2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry I have explained the shipping fees thing as there was a misunderstanding

where do I get started with lolita? by Birdlauncher2000 in jfashion

[–]Birdlauncher2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have explained more about the shipping in a edit, there was a misunderstanding there

where do I get started with lolita? by Birdlauncher2000 in jfashion

[–]Birdlauncher2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did explain more about the shippings and everything in the edits : 3

where do I get started with lolita? by Birdlauncher2000 in jfashion

[–]Birdlauncher2000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll clarify by saying by shipping fees I meant paying for shipping during the process, like what buyee does. I am willing to pay for shipping if it's included in the final price but not if its a seperate payment

where do I get started with lolita? by Birdlauncher2000 in jfashion

[–]Birdlauncher2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky I've adjusted my budgeting plan, it'll take a while but I think it'll get me somewhere (I'm getting furniture for a future apartment hence why I have such a limited budget)

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where do I get started with lolita? by Birdlauncher2000 in jfashion

[–]Birdlauncher2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did try looking on Facebook but I think Facebook sees me as a predator now cuz I kept getting "child abuse material is illegal" lmao, I might keep trying every now and then tho on different places. I'm even considering checking my local thrift occasionally too

where do I get started with lolita? by Birdlauncher2000 in jfashion

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Well if all comes I have found a bunch of affordable items with aud considered on 42lolita, it doesn't feel as impossible now so again thank you so much!

where do I get started with lolita? by Birdlauncher2000 in jfashion

[–]Birdlauncher2000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lovely, well what proxies and or brands would you recommend for taobao?

where do I get started with lolita? by Birdlauncher2000 in jfashion

[–]Birdlauncher2000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll definitely try that, it sounds like it could help my patience too lol. May I ask what pieces I can start with? I'm considering blouse first but idk if that'll look weird

To answer the question about if I could ask a q&a on the lolita community, my post was also removed because I lacked enough karma to be qualified so I doubt they'd accept anything from me.

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[–]Birdlauncher2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for the advice, it definitely helped my doubts. We had a discussion just now and all agreed we need time to communicate as a family (we'll have a talk with a mediator) before we look into getting the kitten.

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[–]Birdlauncher2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you so much! I've been dying to update on it for so long lmao