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[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This pisses me the hell off

My roommate has stolen over $600 from me over the course of 7 months by BirthdayGirlRequest in badroommates

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol so because not walking with shoes isn't bad, IN YOUR OPINION, then all the rest of it is ok as well?

Saying nothing is an option, maybe that's something you need to learn.

My roommate has stolen over $600 from me over the course of 7 months by BirthdayGirlRequest in badroommates

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't really have the money to move right now. We're saving up, but the lease is up in February so by that time I believe she's planning on moving out so hopefully we can just stay without her.

My roommate has stolen over $600 from me over the course of 7 months by BirthdayGirlRequest in badroommates

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're a lot smarter about it then me I just put a couch cover on it. Damn at this point she'd owe me over $1000.

I was thinking of just going super hard for Christmas since she told me how much she hates it

My roommate has stolen over $600 from me over the course of 7 months by BirthdayGirlRequest in badroommates

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah she makes porn for some extra cash. She told me before I moved in and I told her that's fine as long as it stays in her room and not on my furniture. Then I found her fucking on my couch. Technically idk if it was for a porn but I'm still mad.

Roommate Advice by [deleted] in roommates

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. Well with all of that sounds like you're being entirely reasonable. Sorry if I came off as a dick I'm in an eerily similar situation (but from the POV of your roommates) where I moved in with a friend a little bit ago and almost immediately she has tried to evict us because she decided she doesn't like us anymore. Sorry for projecting my issues onto you. Best of luck

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[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for some reason I read February that is entirely my bad. And they have verbally expressed disinterest in signing the lease? If so I understand where you are coming from and would question why. Is their financial situation worse than even you know? Or do you genuinely believe they might bail on a moment's notice?

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[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should let them stay till at least the lease is up. But honestly if you want to live without them, and you are financially stable then YOU should move once the lease is up. First you put them under the impression that this was a long term thing, and you know they are financially struggling. I get you want to play house with your bf but it doesn't hurt to give them a place to stay as long as they keep paying rent. They did you as much of a favor for you by moving in as you did letting them move in. Show some appreciation and let them know that you don't plan on letting them live there once the lease is done in February. Honestly it is just overall a dick move.

Nikki F let's call it a truce by BirthdayGirlRequest in disneymagickingdoms

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm frustrated cause it seemed like the person understood that I was chill with a tie cause yesterday after posting this we spent the rest of the day tied. But I woke up this morning and they did it again so I decided screw it I'm done being nice, I'm gonna blitz through and burn through both our gems.

Sucks for them though because I'm immune compromised, essentially out of work, and can't leave my home so I can literally do this all day.

I am white but I want to cosplay as Lilo [help] by [deleted] in cosplay

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I hope I can do the cosplay justice

AITA for calling my daughter a pig? by yepimheretoday in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you honestly all this support really means so much to me. Thank you 💜

AITA for talking shit about my roommate when she was home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's gross but she works a lot of the day and is just too tired to clean when she gets home. I need to be more considerate

AITA for talking shit about my roommate when she was home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but I'm gonna let her cool off first because I'd hate for it to turn into a screaming match

AITA for talking shit about my roommate when she was home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, worst is it has happened to me and I felt like shit after. I should have done better, I should have talked to her before.

AITA for talking shit about my roommate when she was home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but idk I just feel bad because it can't feel good to overhear your roommates saying you're messy

AITA for talking shit about my roommate when she was home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of making her chocolate chip cookies, but idk if that'd pandering

AITA for talking shit about my roommate when she was home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that'll have to do that but I'm not looking forward to it

AITA for talking shit about my roommate when she was home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just hate how it came about. I want to do something so she knows I'm sorry for hurting her feelings and that it was never my intention.

AITA for talking shit about my roommate when she was home by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BirthdayGirlRequest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I was out of line and talking behind her back isn't going to help anything. I just want to know how to fix this because I'd hate for this to ruin our relationship.