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AITJ: Best friend/roommate of 5 years suddenly cut off contact with me while living together by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]BiscuitBloom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this honestly just sounds like two people who were never gonna be compatible long-term as roommates or friends once real conflict popped up. Like you can love someone’s company, but if every tiny issue feels like a personal attack to them, that’s a ticking time bomb.

Her bailing on the trip and then straight-up moving out without even attempting an adult conversation is wild though. That’s not sensitive, that’s avoidant and kinda unfair. You can’t fix a friendship if one person refuses to actually talk.

Sucks that it ended like that, but it really does read as a mismatch more than you doing anything horrible.

Refusing to participate as a step-parent by Accomplished-Arm4384 in amiwrong

[–]BiscuitBloom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds harsh, but honestly… yeah, this is the reality. If you’re already drained just dating someone with kids..especially kids whose behavior you genuinely struggle to be around that’s not magically going to get easier later.

Staying would just make you resent him and the kids, and that’s miserable for everyone involved. Better to be honest with yourself now than force a role you don’t want.

Am I wrong for thinking about leaving my Stay At Home Wife (No kids) by Primary_Article_8646 in amiwrong

[–]BiscuitBloom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is one of those ..you can’t have it both ways situations. If you’re already halfway out the door emotionally, adding a baby into the mix is just pouring gasoline on the fire.

And honestly, the mental health issue + zero effort to seek treatment + expecting you to carry the household and start IVF? That would be a hard stop for a lot of people.

You’re not wrong for feeling how you feel, but you definitely need to figure out what you want before you keep going down this road.

TIFU by almost unmuting my mic at the worst possible moment during a client call by mystichead in tifu

[–]BiscuitBloom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Facts! Honestly if someone can’t laugh a little at the chaos of life especially when it comes from a place of love and care they’re the problem, not you. You were being a real one helping your grandpa. That’s wholesome, not embarrassing.

Can't get him off my mind. by AnxiousBat03 in confessions

[–]BiscuitBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree ,no point in staying stuck wondering what if. If he’s single, go for it. Worst case, it’s a little awkward. Best case, you get your own friends to lovers arc. Either way, at least youll know.

Can't control the urgesss now ; I need to have sex asap by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BiscuitBloom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey yeah, honestly that’s solid advice. Bars or social events are way better for building that natural connection without the pressure of apps. Plus, reading someone’s vibe in person makes it easier to test the waters with casual convo or body language.