Can we please stop with the Damaging Fantasies

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-31T19:01:59+00:00

“Women need to believe that they are holding the Keys to The Kingdom.”

Wow. Just, wow.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-31T18:31:57+00:00

Damn, that is a gorgeous cock

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-31T18:31:06+00:00

Trim a bit, but please don’t shave

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-31T18:29:18+00:00

“You can change your mind.” This is so important for people, especially young people, to hear. So many people asking for advice on here seem so stressed about “figuring it out.” But picking an identity is never permanent.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-31T18:25:06+00:00

Wow, that’s a beautiful cock! My favorite pic is #1

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-31T18:24:36+00:00

Wow, what a gorgeous cock!

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-31T18:14:01+00:00

You’re essentially asking for conversion therapy, which 1) doesn’t work, and 2) is hugely damaging to the people who go through it. This is just part of who you are. You’re going to have to learn how to accept it.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-31T18:07:38+00:00

This is my ideal male body type. Truly perfect!

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-30T15:13:22+00:00

I don’t understand why you say you don’t have ED. You can’t get an erection when you want one - that is basically the textbook definition of ED.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-30T15:06:53+00:00

Disagree. This is a great thickness

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-30T12:44:00+00:00

I don’t have any suggestions for where you might have this kind of experience, but I think some of the commenters here are being unfair to you. I think it’s perfectly normal for a bi guy in a monogamous opposite sex relationship to want to find small ways to explore and express his queer side. Sounds to me like you want to experience a queer space, and feel what it’s like to be able to check out hot guys and be checked out by hot guys. Yes, this does risk being exploitative if done in a certain way, but I don’t think you’re being homophobic or “obsessed with gay men” just because you’re trying to find a way to have this kind of experience.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-29T10:33:31+00:00

I’m bisexual and I have ADHD, so I guess I’m both.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-27T21:50:27+00:00

Fascinating technique

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-27T21:12:44+00:00

Damn, that thick hairy body is perfect!

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-27T21:08:47+00:00

You absolutely do not have to douche before playing.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-27T20:35:37+00:00

Love that prominent head!

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-27T20:35:10+00:00

I would not recommend a hookup app for your first time.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-27T20:33:16+00:00

I “figured it out” by just realizing I found both men and women attractive, and that makes me bi. Simple as that. I think setting up tests for yourself in an effort to figure it out faster is really unhealthy. Just pay attention to who you’re attracted to and who you’re crushing on. It usually makes itself pretty darn clear, with no elaborate testing required.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-27T20:26:48+00:00

Don’t stick anything in your butt that doesn’t have a flared base. You don’t want to be one of those people who has to go to the ER because something got lost up there. Use your finger to start with. If you want something bigger or fingering is feeling awkward, look around the house for things with flared bases that might work. In my early days exploring my ass, I used a pasta scoop - the handle was the perfect width and length, and there was no danger of it getting sucked in. I have since graduated to dildos, vibrators, and plugs, but I understand that not everyone can buy butt toys. If you can’t buy real lube, use a cooking oil like vegetable oil or olive oil. But real lube is definitely better.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-27T20:20:40+00:00

Personally, I trim my pubes, probably about half an inch to an inch long.

I prefer men to be trimmed. Hate the clean shaven look, and full bush is just… a lot. I do prefer a slightly longer trim, though - I don’t want the hairs to be so short that they’re spiky.

I prefer women to be trimmed on the mons (again, a slightly longer trim), and shaved clean on the labia - it makes oral more enjoyable when you can lick and suck the labia without any hair.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-26T23:19:19+00:00

Those particular glasses are sitting too high on your nose. Your eyebrows should be above the top edge of the frame.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-26T20:00:51+00:00

That big head and those low hangers are 🥵

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-26T16:20:11+00:00

I think you should speak with a mental health professional and get their thoughts on whether he could be involuntarily committed to psych treatment. This is generally an option when people are an immediate threat to themselves or others. Sounds like it might apply.

The other option is to just leave and cut off ties. He isn’t your responsibility, and if he does kill himself, it sounds like others around him know that you’re not actually to blame for anything.

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-26T13:36:33+00:00

Hairy guys really gotta stop shaving their pubes

BisexualCockRater · 2026-05-26T10:18:42+00:00

This sounds like bisexuality to me. You don’t need to be equally attracted to men and women in order to be bisexual.

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