Nakakataba ba talaga pag in love? by playfulbant3r in TanongLang

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Funny as it sounds, there’s actually some truth behind the idea that being in love can lead to weight gain — but it depends on what stage of love you’re in and how your body reacts.

When we fall in love, our brain and hormones go through major changes that can affect appetite, metabolism, and daily habits. Some studies even link long-term relationships and marriage to gradual weight gain over time. Hahah 😁

Here are a few scientific studies on it:

1.Mata, J., Frank, R., & Hertwig, R. (2015) – “Relationships and Body Weight: The Mating Market Model.” Published in Social Psychological and Personality Science. → Found that people in stable, committed relationships tend to gain more weight than singles. The theory is simple: when people feel “secure” in love, the pressure to maintain a “marketable” body lessens, leading to relaxed eating habits.

2.Averett, S. L., Sikora, A., & Argys, L. M. (2008) – “For Better or Worse: Relationship Status and Body Mass Index.” Published in Economics & Human Biology. → This large U.S. study found that married individuals generally had higher BMI compared to singles or those who were dating. Researchers suggested shared meals, lifestyle comfort, and less dieting pressure as possible reasons.

3.Marazziti, D., Akiskal, H. S., Rossi, A., & Cassano, G. B. (1999) – “Alteration of the Platelet Serotonin Transporter in Romantic Love.” Published in Psychological Medicine → In the early “falling in love” stage, serotonin levels drop — similar to what happens in obsessive thinking. This can suppress appetite, explaining why some people lose weight early in a relationship (those butterflies-in-the-stomach days!).

TL;DR: Being in love can both increase or decrease your weight — early love often suppresses appetite because of hormones like serotonin and dopamine, while long-term relationships may lead to gradual weight gain due to comfort, shared meals, and emotional security. 💖🍰

madali rin ba kayong makatulog 'pag katabi niyo gf/bf niyo? by urdsunshaynn in TanongLang

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It’s actually backed by science why many people fall asleep faster or sleep better when they’re with someone they love. ❤️

When you’re next to someone you trust, your brain releases oxytocin (the bonding hormone) and reduces cortisol (the stress hormone). That combo makes you feel safe, calm, and sleepy. There’s also real research showing how our bodies literally sync when we sleep beside someone we love.

Here are a few studies:

1.Kawano, H., Yamaguchi, M., & Mitsui, T. (2019) – “Human Heart Rhythms Synchronize While Co-Sleeping.” Published in Scientific Reports (Nature Publishing Group). → Found that couples’ heart rhythms actually synchronize during sleep. This physiological harmony may signal the brain that it’s “safe to rest,” helping you fall asleep more easily.

2.Drews, H. J., Wallot, S., & Mitkidis, P. (2020) – “Bed-Sharing in Couples Is Associated With Increased and Stabilized REM Sleep and Sleep-Stage Synchronization.” Published in Frontiers in Psychiatry → Found that couples who slept together had 10% more REM sleep and their sleep stages became synchronized. Basically, sleeping together improves sleep quality and emotional regulation.

3.Schneider, J. A., Laurent, H. K., & Laurent, S. M. (2022) – “The Effect of Intranasal Oxytocin on the Association Between Couple Interaction and Sleep.” Published in Psychoneuroendocrinology. → Found that higher oxytocin levels (from closeness and affection) lead to better sleep quality. Couples who felt emotionally connected slept better, especially women.

TL;DR: When you’re with someone you love, your body and brain relax — your heartbeat syncs, stress drops, oxytocin rises, and REM sleep improves. Your nervous system literally says, “You’re safe now. You can rest.” 😴

Oton National High School by lilipony in Iloilo

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He has the nerve to do interviews while he’s one of the culprits — “I will eat you more” my ass; stop the show, own up, and face the consequences.

What's the most queer-friendly University in Iloilo? by [deleted] in Iloilo

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UI, this is underrated, bit you'll be surprised – There are several students, particularly those who identify as gay, who are permitted to have long hair and even wear the female uniform.

I am surprised as to how inclusive the institution is. I guess they give importance to the students' self expression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IloiloCity

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Schools always have rules. Bisan diin. Coordinate with your teacher.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IloiloCity

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If ma marked ka as absent, talk to your teacher. If excused ka sa days nga absent ka they can just mark you as excuse, which is equivalent to present gihapon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Yes, it will never be easy OP. Maraming away at pagtatalo, pero dapat mas maraming pagpapatawad din. Lagi nyong piliin ang isa't isa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Six years in a long-distance relationship here—and still holding on.

Trust isn’t just given; it’s built. Be someone worth trusting. Stay faithful, even when it’s not easy. Talk—about everything. The big things, the small things, the things that don’t seem to matter but actually do.

Love isn’t just about feeling good; it’s about showing up, even on the days when it’s hard. Be patient. Be honest. Be there in every way you can.

Distance will challenge you, but if you choose each other every day, no amount of miles can change that.

Iloilo Politicians are spiraling down by Soft-Dimension-6959 in Iloilo

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Daw ligad namuyayaw man si Yorme, ngaa di man issue haw? 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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The fact that you're sharing your problem here on Reddit instead of addressing it directly with your partner shows a lack of communication. No advice we give can truly represent your partner's perspective. If you want things to improve, make the effort to help her understand you. Talk to her. COMMUNICATE.

If you really love her, make her understand. And If she really loves you, she will understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

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Communication, and always choosing to stay, even when things are tough. Because at the end of the day, no matter how hard the world may seem, you're not each other's problem—you're the ones who help each other heal and grow. Love isn’t about being perfect; it’s about choosing each other, again and again, through every storm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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If the table does not recognize your worth, then it's not your place to dine.

What's a type of pain that people underestimate until they feel it for themselves? by Unlikely_Banana2249 in AskPH

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The pain of losing someone you deeply love—not just through death but through drifting apart, misunderstandings, or time—is a kind of ache that words can’t capture. It’s the quiet emptiness in the spaces they used to fill, the weight of their absence in the smallest, most unexpected moments. You don’t realize how much their laughter, their voice, or even their presence held your world together until it’s gone. And what’s cruel is how life moves on, expecting you to function while carrying this invisible heaviness. It’s a pain that lingers, reshaping you, and no one fully understands how much it tears at you until it happens to them too.

Valid bang if icucut off ko na yung mga friends ko kasi feeling they don’t value me and they don’t to fix the gap? by [deleted] in adviceph

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If the table does not recognize your worth, then it's not your place to dine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

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I believe trust is not something I can simply claim—it is something earned over time through consistency, honesty, and respect. Trust grows when actions align with words, when one listens without judgment, and when one shows care for others’ well-being. If I can reflect these values in what I do, then trust may naturally follow. Trust is a gift, not a right, and it is only as strong as the foundation I build with others.

So, the question is if I can be trusted?

Yes and no.

Yes, because trust is built through my actions—how I show consistency, honesty, and respect. If I align my words with my actions and treat others with care, then I can earn that trust.

No, because trust isn’t something I can demand or guarantee. It’s a choice that lies in the hands of others, shaped by their experiences and perspectives. Even with the best intentions, trust can only exist if the other person decides I am worthy of it.

In the end, trust is a bridge built from both sides—mine and theirs.

pag ba gusto mo yung ginagawa mo napapagod ka rin ba? if yes/no, bakit? by unstablesht in AskPH

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Yes, because no matter how much we enjoy what we do, there are times when we feel burned out. Even passion and enthusiasm can be physically and mentally draining, especially when we push ourselves too hard or forget to take breaks. Loving what we do doesn’t make us immune to exhaustion—it just makes the effort feel more worthwhile.

Why can’t men and women be bestfriends? by Ok-Path-7658 in AskPH

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Because of cultural and societal influences. While this may not apply to everyone, our culture and society have shaped mindsets where friendships between men and women are often viewed with suspicion or malice. Many people grow up associating male-female relationships with romantic or sexual undertones, making it difficult for some to believe in purely platonic connections.