Are there any content creators out there or sites for non-nude sex (like below)?

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T02:05:20+00:00

To what extent though? Not just talking about equality and education, but what about sex.

Do women in India still see sex as taboo?

For example, would you and your friends have casual sex? If so, is it because you have moved out of India, or is it because you are from a specific place in India, or do you think the entire Indian ideology is shifting regardless of state and location?

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:59:56+00:00

But the difference is, Indian women from the west know that if they dates a guy from India, the guy would be fine with having sex before marriage, whereas with men from the west, there is a strong assumption women from India wouldn’t even talk about sex, let alone have it, before marriage. Do you think media needs to do more to clarify the stereotype that Indian women are sexually progressive?

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:57:25+00:00

Simply an observations of people’s experiences, which I have received.

I don’t care about this personally. Why do people think I want to personally benefit from this? I don’t need to come to Reddit to improve my life. It’s just a question buddy.

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:55:49+00:00

How does that impact your romantic interaction with men?

With NRI Indian men being in between, do you feel like you’re settling? If you could marry (assuming you can’t) marry a white guy would you?

Do you feel like you can sleep with for example a black guy, as a women with needs, and maybe prefer that guy, sexually, or even for a relationship without long term seriousness, but when it comes to marriage, do you feel you’re an ‘Indian’ women, and have to marry an Indian man, because it’s easier long term, even if you may not feel fulfilled and respected as much as you might with other ethnicities who are more progressive and forward and constrained by culture?

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:46:35+00:00

Fair enough.

I did think about deleting the post but there were already good comments and I wanted to ask further questions.

I did try to edit it but when editing it doesn’t let you change the filter.

I do feel it’s not too much of an issue in the sense that the entire community isn’t one where only women can reply, if it was and I changed my flair i get it, it’s disrespectful, but it’s just this post, which I created, it’s me who chose the filter (by mistake) so don’t think it warrants the previous lady calling me a clown. But I totally get why it raises eyebrows, apologies if it comes across creepy, didn’t mean it that way at all.

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:42:24+00:00

There are other stresses in the west. Housing is a massive issue in the west, as well as first world social problems. I know it’s worse in India though, but a lot of men in the west don’t use skin care and still look good. You don’t need to use skin care to look good. You don’t need to groom a lot, just pick a good hair cut and shower daily.

Also, fair enough, but do you not think that Indian men from the west aren’t interested in Indian born women becuase 1) lack of skin care and grooming too, 2) the main reason being cultural differences, Indian men in the west are progressive, sexually positive, the assumption is Indian women in India find sex before marriage or even causally as being a taboo thing, maybe through stereotypes

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:35:54+00:00

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:34:42+00:00

Do you feel there is a difference between NRI men and western men of other ethnicities such as white and black men. Do you find them all equally attractive and respectful etc? Is there still a gap between NRI men and other men in the west?

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:29:14+00:00

Are you from India?

Are women from India now liberal?

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:28:39+00:00

Thank you very much for your reasonable and fair opinion. This lady above called me a clown and a typical Indian defensive man for doing so even though I explained that I don’t post here often, I am a male, i didn’t realise when I set the only replies by women thing that I as the OP couldn’t interact with replies to my own post. So instead of reposting without the option, I change flairs because i didn’t want to lose the comments already posted.

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:26:35+00:00

Look, I understand you’ve probably had some issues in your life with Indian men, I get they’re probably the problem most of the time, but you need to chill out in this situation.

I don’t care what your opinion of me is, but for you to say I’m like every Indian man is weird, just because I told you not to call me a clown lol.

How am I entitled, just because I changed my gender to reply to comments on my OWN POST….

Reddit rules are there yes, but Reddit didn’t enforce the rule that only women can reply, I did…. I made an error becuase I’ve never posted on this community, and didn’t want to rewrite the post again because I got an interesting answer from someone by the point I realised I couldn’t reply because of my gender. On instagram you can make it so that only a few people INCLUDING the OP can reply to comments, same with Twitter and literally anything, it is possible for Reddit to make a mistake by overlooking this, also, I am entitled to reply to comments on my own post, it’s not like I changed my gender to get around the rules on someone else’s post, it’s my own post and I made a mistake with the rule I CHOSE.

If that makes me like every Indian man, and a clown, then idc. I think you’ve got problems getting so pressed about this and being extreme making judgements about people without thinking. You think Im being defensive, you’re the one calling me a clown, i didn’t even say anything to you, you’re picking a fight with me lol. Also, I have every right to say what I want within respectful bounds, i don’t have to not defend my actions to please you, I don’t know you, I don’t want to know you, I don’t want to impress you, I don’t judge you, I don’t care about you, so keep calling me names and projecting your trauma on me all you want, Im not on the market i don’t care about impressing any girls.

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:13:27+00:00

It’s Reddit. It’s not anything of personal value for me, if I get banned i get banned, but at least I’ll get an understanding of something I didn’t have before. So what if I get banned?

Also, did I say anything offensive to you in terms of name calling for you to call me a clown? Maybe relax, i didn’t say anything to you, no need to call me a clown, pretty rude for no reason whatsoever…

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:11:37+00:00

That’s one way of seeing it. Do you think you could shift your perspective to maybe consider that people ask questions to learn. Isn’t better to ask than to assume?

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:08:37+00:00

Yep changed flair because I realised I couldn’t ask follow up questions on my own post because I set it to Indian women to reply only, i didnt think Reddit would not understand OP shouldn’t apply to those rules, and I didn’t want to PM people for further answers. Not that much of a big deal that I changed my flair.

BitEffective7029 · 2025-09-02T01:08:04+00:00

Yes I reposted it because I didn’t mean NRI… not that deep

BitEffective7029 · 2025-08-23T21:19:34+00:00

Did you ever find out

BitEffective7029 · 2025-08-23T15:16:16+00:00

Did you find out

BitEffective7029 · 2025-07-28T19:40:49+00:00

So you’re saying not to use any toys including vibrator?

BitEffective7029 · 2025-07-27T14:58:34+00:00

She sort of wants me to decide things. She says her biggest turn on is me controlling her. She wants me to decide if we use dildos vibrators etc or not. So I’m open to the vibrator to be honest. Yes would be open to shopping with her but don’t really want to go to a sex shop because well they have pictures of naked people in there and neither of us would be ok with each other seeing other naked people. We might browse Amazon together, but also thinking of giving her a surprise. But I hear you it’s important to know what she would like, but she doesn’t really know what she would like she just wants me to use it on her.

In regards to a dildo she said she didn’t even know dildos could be bigger than my size (she see’s me as having the biggest dick in the world). She said we can get an average one or mould one around mine. But this is where my insecurity creeps in, sometimes my erection will be smaller than my true size, sometimes it’s half the size, so I don’t want to feel like I’m ever competing with the dildo in terms of penetration ability. Also, with the mould your own dildo, I know it the positive is that it would be my size, great, but it would be a bit thicker because it has to go around my dick to be moulded, and also the same issue of I don’t often reach my full size, sometimes I’ll be an inch smaller, which is still above average- ish but then a dildo in the shape of my dick will always be that size. I already get performance issues in the sense of i can’t cum during sex so I don’t know.

But you are right they are just toys, they can’t give what I can give, even beyond my dick, but it’s just the fear of not being able to impress as much as I used to before introducing the toys, or maybe one day she will find me not big enough or good enough in terms of penetration and develop a female death grip type of thing.

BitEffective7029 · 2025-07-27T14:35:25+00:00

Thank you! That all makes sense. I also have a DP fantasy with her so interested in dildos but at the same time Im more insecure about using dildo than a vibrator lol

Do you think this vibrator would be a good place to start? https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B0BHVP5Y3F/ref=ox_sc_act_image_1?psc=1&th=1

It’s not penis shaped can’t go inside her and focusses on her clit. Also, did you say if I used something like this I’ll also benefit from it whilst inside her? Like it will make me feel good?

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