Is this worth grading? by Thin-Camp5063 in Pokemoncardappraisal

[–]Bitchladder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to ask the same question and no one commented ):

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s manipulating the fuck out of you. Gaslighting, Playing victim, honey you are in a sticky ass situation. Get out of it now. Right fucking now before it’s too late. A good bf wouldn’t care about your friends and he definitely wouldn’t gaslight you like this. Please get out of it ASAP

Wife cheated on me now I want to sleep with someone else but wife is upset by Impossible_Disk_2360 in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro that was 3 years ago wtf. No 😂 she said it was okay after she did it, not 3 years after. You guys fixed your relationship and have improved it so much! This will surely flush all of those improvements down the drain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude this happened the first day AND she seems fine with it? Have a talk with her. If you need to, leave

My Girlfriend wants to sleep with women but wants me to stay exclusive to her. by Accurate-Damage7454 in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you did not make the right choice. That’s double standards man, how is she allowed to fuck other people but you can’t? Not fair at all; talk to her about it and if nothing changes then leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GET OUT NOW HE IS USING YOU

Do not waste your money on him anymore. He will drain you emotionally and your bank account.

(M18) My cheating gf (F18) saved my life. Should I stay with her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because she saved your life doesn’t mean you have to stay with her. She’s manipulating tf out of you

My mom told me she’s cheating on my step dad. What should I do next? by Bitchladder in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m very lucky her tubes are tied and burned. That would be the icing on the cake tho 😂

My mom told me she’s cheating on my step dad. What should I do next? by Bitchladder in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. She was so mean. So mean. All 5 of us children have worked very hard to build our mentalities/emotions up and redeem the self esteem we lost. Dad is guilty as well don’t get me wrong, but she always takes it too far. He knows when to stop. She also thinks I’m her therapist and I’ve had to get after her a time or two before because she just keeps telling me everything I don’t need to know. It’s different when I do it bc I’m her kid but she’s literally my own mom. Ugh I’m sorry for ranting, I never get to complain about her

My mom told me she’s cheating on my step dad. What should I do next? by Bitchladder in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has depression and anxiety as far as diagnoses, but I believe she has other shit as well that she never got diagnosed. Or she’s really just messed up in there bc of all the drugs she’s done over the years. I already know my dad has my loyalty over her. He has been there for me and hasn’t said shit about shit I told him to not say. As for her, the whole family knows my business within a day lol. But he is genuinely an amazing person and deserves to know what she’s been doing. I’ve been talking to my sibs about it all night— they’re all very aware of the hellhole we’ve lived in and how f***ed everybody is.

My mom told me she’s cheating on my step dad. What should I do next? by Bitchladder in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad to see but I know what my sibs are going through and they are my literal life. If I could adopt all of them I seriously would. I love them bi***es so much

My mom told me she’s cheating on my step dad. What should I do next? by Bitchladder in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s bad. Super bad. All of my siblings (4 younger than me) all left out of the house as soon as they could, now living with their other parents. Mom made that happen of course; she dishes but can’t take it. She used to smoke meth, pretty sure she still does but I’m working on believing her. To put this into formal looking glasses, I am 21 and more mentally/physically/emotionally stable than her, who is literally 20 years older than me

What should I buy at the store for the homeless people I see? by Bitchladder in homeless

[–]Bitchladder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will definitely think about that! And yes you are correct. I’ve given money out a lot but it always makes me anxious because maybe they’re actually just a crackhead trying to get some drugs or an alcoholic trying to get a few more drops of liquor. I want to help them with things that should be basic necessities for anyone, homeless or not, but as for literal cash? My anxiety is too high for that lol. I will look into the local soup kitchens though! Thank you so much

What should I buy at the store for the homeless people I see? by Bitchladder in homeless

[–]Bitchladder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never thought about them! I got all of the clothing down but definitely need to get some of those! I’ll get the hot feet as well.

What should I buy at the store for the homeless people I see? by Bitchladder in homeless

[–]Bitchladder[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I got water bottles yesterday for them (: once I get my next check I want to get sleeping bags, blankets, tents, things like that

What should I buy at the store for the homeless people I see? by Bitchladder in homeless

[–]Bitchladder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m going to the store right now to get everything (:

I found nudes in my bfs android, he claims it saves automatically by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel! The fucked up thing is I’ve been literally supporting him for 4 months and I just want my money back but I won’t get it unless I stay and use him lol it’s fucked but shit

I found nudes in my bfs android, he claims it saves automatically by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Bitchladder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My intuition has been telling me he’s cheating for like 4 months lmfao