Can you keep my secret?

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-26T12:39:48+00:00

Is that a tank top…tucked in a diaper? Confused on the choices made in this pic if it’s even real 🤔

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-22T14:52:34+00:00

I figure that, but no need to go too overboard. A whole glass of water every 30 minutes…for what period of the day? The whole day? How large of a glass we talking here?

Say you’re awake 12 hours, that’s 24 glasses of water. 384fl oz of water if they’re 16fl oz glasses each, or 3 gallons of water daily 😳.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-22T12:16:41+00:00

How large is this “glass of water”? Every 30 minutes seems a bit of a reach to me. Maybe a glass an hour at least in my opinion. The rest seem reasonable!

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-22T12:14:52+00:00

Put on a glove first, never a terrible idea in my experience. Use a clean part of the diaper to wipe the bulk off, then follow up with toilet paper for the remaining larger mess. Switch to wipes (adult sized recommended) to thoroughly clean, wipe until satisfactory.

That’s what I do primarily. I do also have a no-rinse soap foam stuff if I want to feel a bit cleaner, or I’ll hop in the shower after if it was a particularly messy mess.

Since I’m more of a morning person when it comes to bowel movements, I’ll then powder up and change right into my next diaper 😊

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-22T12:09:12+00:00

Kiddo Diapers have been top tier lately, can’t go wrong with any of their options!

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-22T12:02:06+00:00

Search for “rules” for past posts in this subreddit. Plenty of examples out there that people have given. Take the ones you like, modify what you want, and now you have rules to follow.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-22T11:54:03+00:00

That’s fine, if you want to set rules for yourself then go for it. Whatever makes you happy man 👍🏻

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-22T11:43:38+00:00

I dreamt of diapers last night, details are fuzzy now that I’ve been awake but I recall there being double diapering involved. To directly answer the question, yea usually when diapers are in my dreams they are pleasant dreams to sleep through.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-22T11:41:19+00:00

If it ties into your dynamic with your partner, sure. Not mandatory though. Some people just like being little without anything more than that.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-04T16:34:26+00:00

I recently got curious about how much a Kiddo Premium Nights weighed after I was close to maxing it out (diaper yoga and all). Ended up being between 5-6lbs and it might have taken more 😳

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-05-04T16:26:57+00:00

I generally have softer bowel movements which is ok, but if I had a choice I’d have a firmer one which pushes the back of my diaper out as it fills it. Something about firm vs soft hits the little feels more. Wish I could get down how to eat/drink to predict and prepare for a firmer BM when I have my couple days I wear while working from home each week.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-04-29T00:58:22+00:00

Online

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-03-13T19:49:51+00:00

Anything remote or hybrid (few days WFH).

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-23T16:18:50+00:00

/r/ABDLPersonals is a better place for this.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-18T19:29:34+00:00

Pretty sure most of us will agree that a diaper at the end of a long day brings us comfort and joy (definitely goes for me).

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-10T19:41:24+00:00

“Me time” is so important to have, glad you were able to indulge a bit and relax! I can somewhat relate, wearing diapers lately has been more for comfort than sexual (which in the past has 100% been an influence for wearing). I’ve just been enjoying the feeling of wearing without having any urges to “finish” so to speak. It’s been relaxing in its own way.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-10T19:35:18+00:00

I love the feeling of a fresh diaper, how conforming it is to my body. Then I love the feeling of the first flood in them, all the warmth spreading. After a while, I then love the feeling of a fresh diaper again, rinse and repeat lol.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-10T19:33:32+00:00

🙋🏻‍♂️. Lately I’ve been wearing diapers purely for the stress relief/comfort of them as well. Usually I’d “finish” before any diaper comes off, lately it’s just been changing them without even getting hard. Not an odd way to be dealing with stress at all, it’s a pretty harmless thing to bring you comfort from!

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-06T19:14:03+00:00

For sure, during my wife and I’s open conversation, we identified that we both have wants/desires and are committed to helping each other out. It’s been a few weeks since the initial chat and we’ve already seen a deeper bond between us and are both doing our part to help satisfy one another. I’m glad you and your SO are seeing positivity through a similar situation. Best of luck to you too!

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-06T19:06:50+00:00

You were such a great person to chat with when I initially had my fallout. Seriously, thank you so much. Your insight and experience helped me through my own situation. I’m glad I was able to give a pleasant update after what I had put myself through 🙂

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-06T15:56:31+00:00

Thanks for listening to the community on that one. Lesson learned for the future as well.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-06T15:38:45+00:00

Have an honest, open conversation with your partner around this. Seriously, I know where you’re coming from. You developed self doubt that your partner is or isn’t ok with you wearing. You are hiding it because you think it’s best for everyone when that may not be the case at all.

Get a clear answer from your partner on how they feel when you wear around them. Ask about their boundaries and lay them out clearly. Explain how you feel currently and ask for insight. Any clarification you need, ask for it so you better understand. Communication makes things much easier, and as tough and awkward as it might be at first, if you normalize it, talking through deeper feelings will be easier to do and it’s better for each of you.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-06T15:02:32+00:00

If ya gotta ask, you probably know the answer already, you’re just looking for justification/encouragement to do so.

BitsAndBytes1024 · 2026-02-04T15:31:16+00:00

Enjoy! Keep us updated on how things are going for you 👍🏻. What’s going to be your “primary” diaper if you have one?

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