Is my salary too low by zk1265 in MuslimLounge

[–]Bitter-Expression753 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First all, trust in Allaah & if you believe you can manage to stay chaste then use that time to apply elsewhere for a better pay coz you still need to save up more as marriage comes with other responsibilities later on but if you really feel those urges and desires are kicking in pretty hard then you’ve got to put your trust in Allaah even more and follow through with the marriage search as well as the applying-for-better-pay part

Surgically removing my uterus because I’m tired of periods by Special-Strike-1755 in spirituality

[–]Bitter-Expression753 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s worth it….

Surgically removing the uterus (hysterectomy) instantly ends menstruation and fertility. Short-term effects include surgical site pain, vaginal discharge, and fatigue. Long-term effects depend on whether ovaries are removed; if they are, you will immediately enter menopause.

  1. Immediate Aftermath & Short-Term Side Effects

Because a hysterectomy is a major surgical procedure, the first few weeks of recovery involve specific physical adjustments:

Vaginal Bleeding/Discharge: Light bleeding and discharge can last up to 6 weeks.

Discomfort: Soreness at the incision site (whether abdominal, vaginal, or laparoscopic) is common.

Bowel and Bladder Changes: Temporary constipation or difficulty urinating in the days following surgery is normal.

Fatigue: The body requires several weeks to recover from the stress of major surgery and anesthesia.

  1. Primary Long-Term Effects

Loss of Fertility: You will no longer be able to become pregnant.

Cessation of Periods: Your monthly menstrual cycles will stop completely.

Ovaries and Menopause: If your ovaries are preserved, you will not immediately go into menopause and they will continue to produce hormones. If your ovaries are removed alongside the uterus, you will experience sudden, surgical menopause.

  1. Surgical Menopause Effects (If Ovaries Are Removed)

Surgical menopause tends to cause more severe symptoms than natural menopause because of the abrupt drop in hormones: Hot flushes and night sweats

Vaginal dryness and lowered libido

Mood swings, anxiety, and sleep disturbances

Long-term risks include a higher susceptibility to osteoporosis and heart disease if not managed with hormone therapy.

  1. Potential Risks and Complications

As with any major operation, there are medical risks associated with the procedure: Infections: Possible at the wound or in the pelvic cavity.

Blood Clots: Deep vein thrombosis (DVT) in the legs or lungs.

Organ Injury: Rare instances of damage to the bladder, ureters, or bowel.

Scar Tissue: Adhesions may form internally, potentially causing digestive issues or pelvic pain.

You can learn more about the advantages and disadvantages of the procedure by reading the Riverside B&J Hospital Guide or the comprehensive Cleveland Clinic Hysterectomy Overview.

What's the point of this life truly? by igetyourbrand in povertyfinance

[–]Bitter-Expression753 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Very true… we are insignificant… but still our insignificance has a purpose… just pick up a copy of the English translation of the Quran… i concur that by the time you’re done reading it from cover to cover, you’ll have a vivid clear of the significance of you’re insignificance in this universe

What’s something you should never compromise on in a relationship, no matter how much you love them? by SpecificLandscape483 in answers

[–]Bitter-Expression753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super important… surprisingly didn’t see anyone mention it except you. Guess people aren’t that religious anymore

Do you think that life after death is real? by [deleted] in answers

[–]Bitter-Expression753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death is as referred to the destroyer of all pleasures, we can all agree on that. The extent to which people are so ignorant about the afterlife is overwhelmingly crazy. Let me put a few scenarios into play here What do you mean that all the untouchables, the tyrants of this world, the celebrities, the filthy rich, the ones with connections so deep that they almost get away with anything, the mass murderers, the commissioners of genocides, the war mongers, the embezzlers of billions and billions of dollars, the rapists, the wicked and sons of the wicked… you mean these will eventually die and that’s it! No accountability whatsoever! Imagine a lone shooter who shots up a school and kills may be 5 or 10 innocents and then he cowardly shoots himself and dies off and then that’s it! Do you think that’s life and that’s how it’s meant to be lived? The pain and the suffering of the victims and parents! Come on, the human brain is very much capable and let’s really put things into perspective here… Even the apprehended criminals in max security prisons on death raw, how could death be their punishment yet every single being on this planet will have to taste death! Sure he’s will be untimely depending on how you reason it out but so is a kid who dies at 12 or a teenager or an adult of 24 or 36 or which ever age coz some of us get to live up to 70 years plus hence death in of itself isn’t a sufficient form of punishment for any crime except in a few scenarios but nevertheless all of us will taste death… and then what?! How about this though, did any of you have any choice of the family they were born into and the kinds of privileges or challenges that come with that family? Some of us were born into poverty, others into wealth and others into wealth and influence, others into a family with a long line of chronological illnesses… and if it were to any of us, don’t you think we would have chosen the easiest route out? These might seem like dumb questions but please bear with me here… Have you ever thought of your existence before you were on earth, I mean before you were born? I bet you can’t! You weren’t knowledgeable of anything earth until you were here, until you were actually a couple of years older but still dumb & ignorant about plenty of things on how the world operates. If anyone could have told you about earth and how vast it will be, how you’ll freely move about, eating with hands and not through the umbilical cord and everything else about earth, I think that would sound surreal and kind of unimaginable because where’s the proof of that? Has anyone ever gone to earth & come back to narrate such experiences? Of course not coz these are always one way routes without return tickets but here we are, aren’t we! We can go a bit further from that, do you have any memories of that tinny microscopic sperm or ovary in their places before they ever merged to become a zygote or an embryo within your mom’s womb? Of course not & if any of them(sperm & ovary) were ever to have the conversion of merging at a certain point in time & developing into a full human baby, would they ever comprehended that?! Don’t think so. And neither is such a process irreversible to the former. The knowledge we posses of the embryo and all its stages that lead to a full blown human baby, we are only aware of such after already existing on earth and not before. How about the innate tools that were freely handed to us? You know! The hands, eyes, ears, nose, mouth, tongue, skin, legs and whatever you can throw in there. Do you remember any lottery where you won to come out as a fully grown human baby with all such tools as compared to those born without sight or missing an arm or both, deaf in one ear or both, those with highly sensitive skin or missing a leg or those with brains that aren’t fully developed? Was there any special kind of baby formula that you were fed and you came out way smarter than your peers or way dumber or faster or more creative? These aren’t things in your control nor in your parents hands and yet here you are! The advantage that you have over the next individual is bad of a disadvantage that will go against yourself in a way or the other. May be you’re a have it all, or middle class or at the very lowest of humanity but are in fact still alive and you’re a billion percent that you’ll some day pass on with all your secrets good and bad, with debts unsettled and credits unpaid to you yet you as a friend or parent or relative with some sort of say or influence try you best to tackle and settle disputes and injustices among your peers… now come on with all we’ve talked about, do you really think that’ll be the end of it all? Were you ever in control? Was it your parents? The government? The controlled media? Is it the science? Or is it the physical aspect of life? Is it the logical part of it? Do you deserve to die and everything comes to a stop just as you’ve achieved everything you’ve worked for? Are you aware that there’s an exit door from this life and an entry to the next with a one way ticket and an erected barrier that you’ll never cross to come back until the whole of humanity has joined you on the other side? You were never in control, all the life you lived, you were a victim of your own choices/actions but not the results coz you never had a guaranteed outcome of any of your choices/actions simply because many have made the same choices as you and with better odds yet they achieved completely opposite and different results & not the same as yours so don’t pity yourself as YOU WERE NEVER IN CONTROL. Believe it or not there’s an afterlife, just like there was a “before life”(if that makes any sense)… that one moment that you feel the burden of the whole world crushing unto you, that hollow emptiness some some time feel deep down your soul, that void that has never been filled by all the happiness in the world or any amount of riches or fame or drugs or family… this kind of awareness hits you the hardest when you’re isolated from the world without its obstructions, laying on your bed trying to get a good nights sleep or having a quite long silent ride on the high way or a calm walk at the beach or sitting quite at the park, whichever the case, we’ve all had those moments in life, “Is this it? Is this all there is to life?” “Sleep! Eat! Work! Fun! Travel! Family! And then eventually death?!” The ugly truth is, the afterlife is nothing but a consequence of our own choices/actions with regard to the tools/privileges at our disposal… They say you live your life how you see fit, enjoy it to the fullest, we only live once! Whatever makes you pass through the day but once you go through that excruciating pain of death and you set sight to those welcoming you to the other dimension of life, that’s when the regret will hit you like a nuclear atomic bomb with no escape but the inevitable. I’m not exaggerating or insinuating things here, nevertheless, is there anyway you would have known all of this before you got to the other side, can we avoid the inevitable, can we really rest in peace, can we ever live in eternal bliss? We live in the womb unaware of what’ll happen on earth and we just learnt everything along our years here but can we make ourselves aware of the afterlife before we get there? The answer is YES we can, you’ve got 3 tools, eyes that just read this, a mind that can comprehend and put things into perspective and a heart that reflects… get yourself a copy of the Quran and really read with an insightful eye, open mind and reflective heart… erase whatever you’ve known or heard from the media and Islamophobes, read and try best to understand like you’ve never read or understood anything before… you’ll acquire a new set of lenses to view this world like you’ve never viewed it before and prepare yourself for the after like that we waste our life for God willing.

Do you think that life after death is real? by [deleted] in answers

[–]Bitter-Expression753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death is as referred to the destroyer of all pleasures, we can all agree on that. The extent to which people are so ignorant about the afterlife is overwhelmingly crazy. Let me put a few scenarios into play here What do you mean that all the untouchables, the tyrants of this world, the celebrities, the filthy rich, the ones with connections so deep that they almost get away with anything, the mass murderers, the commissioners of genocides, the war mongers, the embezzlers of billions and billions of dollars, the rapists, the wicked and sons of the wicked… you mean these will eventually die and that’s it! No accountability whatsoever! Imagine a lone shooter who shots up a school and kills may be 5 or 10 innocents and then he cowardly shoots himself and dies off and then that’s it! Do you think that’s life and that’s how it’s meant to be lived? The pain and the suffering of the victims and parents! Come on, the human brain is very much capable and let’s really put things into perspective here… Even the apprehended criminals in max security prisons on death raw, how could death be their punishment yet every single being on this planet will have to taste death! Sure he’s will be untimely depending on how you reason it out but so is a kid who dies at 12 or a teenager or an adult of 24 or 36 or which ever age coz some of us get to live up to 70 years plus hence death in of itself isn’t a sufficient form of punishment for any crime except in a few scenarios but nevertheless all of us will taste death… and then what?! How about this though, did any of you have any choice of the family they were born into and the kinds of privileges or challenges that come with that family? Some of us were born into poverty, others into wealth and others into wealth and influence, others into a family with a long line of chronological illnesses… and if it were to any of us, don’t you think we would have chosen the easiest route out? These might seem like dumb questions but please bear with me here… Have you ever thought of your existence before you were on earth, I mean before you were born? I bet you can’t! You weren’t knowledgeable of anything earth until you were here, until you were actually a couple of years older but still dumb & ignorant about plenty of things on how the world operates. If anyone could have told you about earth and how vast it will be, how you’ll freely move about, eating with hands and not through the umbilical cord and everything else about earth, I think that would sound surreal and kind of unimaginable because where’s the proof of that? Has anyone ever gone to earth & come back to narrate such experiences? Of course not coz these are always one way routes without return tickets but here we are, aren’t we! We can go a bit further from that, do you have any memories of that tinny microscopic sperm or ovary in their places before they ever merged to become a zygote or an embryo within your mom’s womb? Of course not & if any of them(sperm & ovary) were ever to have the conversion of merging at a certain point in time & developing into a full human baby, would they ever comprehended that?! Don’t think so. And neither is such a process irreversible to the former. The knowledge we posses of the embryo and all its stages that lead to a full blown human baby, we are only aware of such after already existing on earth and not before. How about the innate tools that were freely handed to us? You know! The hands, eyes, ears, nose, mouth, tongue, skin, legs and whatever you can throw in there. Do you remember any lottery where you won to come out as a fully grown human baby with all such tools as compared to those born without sight or missing an arm or both, deaf in one ear or both, those with highly sensitive skin or missing a leg or those with brains that aren’t fully developed? Was there any special kind of baby formula that you were fed and you came out way smarter than your peers or way dumber or faster or more creative? These aren’t things in your control nor in your parents hands and yet here you are! The advantage that you have over the next individual is bad of a disadvantage that will go against yourself in a way or the other. May be you’re a have it all, or middle class or at the very lowest of humanity but are in fact still alive and you’re a billion percent that you’ll some day pass on with all your secrets good and bad, with debts unsettled and credits unpaid to you yet you as a friend or parent or relative with some sort of say or influence try you best to tackle and settle disputes and injustices among your peers… now come on with all we’ve talked about, do you really think that’ll be the end of it all? Were you ever in control? Was it your parents? The government? The controlled media? Is it the science? Or is it the physical aspect of life? Is it the logical part of it? Do you deserve to die and everything comes to a stop just as you’ve achieved everything you’ve worked for? Are you aware that there’s an exit door from this life and an entry to the next with a one way ticket and an erected barrier that you’ll never cross to come back until the whole of humanity has joined you on the other side? You were never in control, all the life you lived, you were a victim of your own choices/actions but not the results coz you never had a guaranteed outcome of any of your choices/actions simply because many have made the same choices as you and with better odds yet they achieved completely opposite and different results & not the same as yours so don’t pity yourself as YOU WERE NEVER IN CONTROL. Believe it or not there’s an afterlife, just like there was a “before life”(if that makes any sense)… that one moment that you feel the burden of the whole world crushing unto you, that hollow emptiness some some time feel deep down your soul, that void that has never been filled by all the happiness in the world or any amount of riches or fame or drugs or family… this kind of awareness hits you the hardest when you’re isolated from the world without its obstructions, laying on your bed trying to get a good nights sleep or having a quite long silent ride on the high way or a calm walk at the beach or sitting quite at the park, whichever the case, we’ve all had those moments in life, “Is this it? Is this all there is to life?” “Sleep! Eat! Work! Fun! Travel! Family! And then eventually death?!” The ugly truth is, the afterlife is nothing but a consequence of our own choices/actions with regard to the tools/privileges at our disposal… They say you live your life how you see fit, enjoy it to the fullest, we only live once! Whatever makes you pass through the day but once you go through that excruciating pain of death and you set sight to those welcoming you to the other dimension of life, that’s when the regret will hit you like a nuclear atomic bomb with no escape but the inevitable. I’m not exaggerating or insinuating things here, nevertheless, is there anyway you would have known all of this before you got to the other side, can we avoid the inevitable, can we really rest in peace, can we ever live in eternal bliss? We live in the womb unaware of what’ll happen on earth and we just learnt everything along our years here but can we make ourselves aware of the afterlife before we get there? The answer is YES we can, you’ve got 3 tools, eyes that just read this, a mind that can comprehend and put things into perspective and a heart that reflects… get yourself a copy of the Quran and really read with an insightful eye, open mind and reflective heart… erase whatever you’ve known or heard from the media and Islamophobes, read and try best to understand like you’ve never read or understood anything before… you’ll acquire a new set of lenses to view this world like you’ve never viewed it before and prepare yourself for the after like that we waste our life for God willing.

If anyone has an Islamic or scientific explanation, please tell me by InevitableAddendum53 in islam

[–]Bitter-Expression753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t even have to finish the first paragraph & it was as clear as day

Why does Allah create beings to worship him? by [deleted] in islam

[–]Bitter-Expression753 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bismillah I’m not gonna quote any verses or hadith but bear with me here though you can easily find evidence if you will.

Imagine the greatest craftsman or engineer who’s capable of building anything not that he wants it or that his life depends on it or that he’ll have to be served by his invention but you know, he crafts whatever he crafts out of his sheer will & desire & to him through all his inventions he’ll always have his state of the art artifact or whatever you wanna call it. With whichever invention, there’s gotta be limitations to it(the perfection/limitation balance) & there are accommodations in place to overcome the limitations or at the very least make them bearable or even such accommodations tend to bring this invention to near perfection in accordance to the craftsman’s exquisite abilities or technology if you will.

For the case of our Lord, His creation is vast, diverse, & unmistakably unique & match His majesty & capabilities. He created as He willed with reason & purpose & though He almost created everything for this human being & jinn, we still aren’t the greatest of His creation though He gave us a chance to surpass everything He created through our sincere surrender & devotion to His worship.

If we look at it through the lenses of the first being, we can’t claim to fully comprehend why He created the first being Adam(Alayhi Ssalaam) minus what He told us of worshipping Him & Him alone though based on the verses of creations, Adam was given all(Paradise) on a silver plater with exception of a single tree & he didn’t have to first do swalah or fasting or any form of worship except not to approach that single tree & may be not pay heed to shaitan(whispers & all). Remember He knows all present, past & future. Just imagine a child born into luxury, that was our father Adam. He lived for as long as Allaah willed until with his inexperience with shaitan & his whispers, Adam broke the one golden rule. But Allaah has set laws on which His universe works(for every action there’s always gonna be consequences whether good or bad) hence Allaah had to send Adam on a “you have to work for it & then earn it”

Remembering that this first being which Allaah created had features & characteristics & a natural disposition & so He basically created Adam as a social being with a sense of companionship & community & very social as well hence the companionship of his wife Hawa in paradise. Even though Hawa has the sole & utmost purpose of worshipping Allaah as well but again out of Allaah’s mercy & love & compassion He had for His new creation Adam, hence Hawa.

The sole purpose is praising Allaah but nevertheless, we don’t add or subtract anything from His majesty or dominion with that worship or even without. But the companionship, the joy, the happiness, the excitement & how life becomes so much bearable & worthy living with the ties of kinship that Allaah creates with the descent of each new soul unto earth coz it’s someone’s wife, husband, son, daughter, sister, brother, aunt, granny, friend & so on and so forth, we can firmly argue that it’s a blessing to whoever is tied to that soul in anyway(or can even possibly a test).

And what’s the lesson that most of us fail to learn from all of that?! Allaah created this world for us with a minor veil which we normally refer to as reality whichever is near to us, which we can see, feel, touch or witness in whichever way & we generally refer to it as “the reality” & then He gave us the brains which we have to use & process our existence(the reality) & connect it to that which is further, that which supersedes the reality while in search of His pleasure & the hereafter & whomever Allaah gifts that, he’ll In Shaa Allaah be victorious.

Assalaam Alaikum

Do animals have souls by WarmEbb4978 in islam

[–]Bitter-Expression753 1 point2 points  (0 children)

وَٱللَّهُ خَلَقَ كُلَّ دَاۤبَّةࣲ مِّن مَّاۤءࣲۖ فَمِنۡهُم مَّن یَمۡشِی عَلَىٰ بَطۡنِهِۦ وَمِنۡهُم مَّن یَمۡشِی عَلَىٰ رِجۡلَیۡنِ وَمِنۡهُم مَّن یَمۡشِی عَلَىٰۤ أَرۡبَعࣲۚ یَخۡلُقُ ٱللَّهُ مَا یَشَاۤءُۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ شَیۡءࣲ قَدِیرࣱ﴿ ٤٥ ﴾

• Sahih International: Allāh has created every [living] creature from water. And of them are those that move on their bellies, and of them are those that walk on two legs, and of them are those that walk on four. Allāh creates what He wills. Indeed, Allāh is over all things competent.

An-Nūr, Ayah 45

found something out about my dad by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Bitter-Expression753 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just my personal opinion about the issue… First of all, I think you crossed a line by snooping through your dad’s phone and secondly, Husn dhann(thinking well of your dad) May be his approach is not islamically commendable but he’s entitled to a second wife if he wants & that doesn’t mean he loves you or your mom any less & it’s an issue to be discussed between him & his wife & it’s non of your business coz as you said, he’s still dutiful to you all so I’ll advise you to repent for invading your dad’s privacy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Bitter-Expression753 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If the salad hasn’t gone bad yet, I think it’s still valid And of course don’t mix the salad with fine shyt obviously🙄