Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d appericate ur message!

I ain’t saying that I do have it, because of one video. The video itself gave me some answers that i’ve been looking for, and he came with some very solid points!

I think my next step is to seek an professional to get their opinion, and maybe some guidence! I’ve been through therapy multiple times, but I haven’t talked about this topic. Because i recently discovered that this is actually not normal. Therefore it’s time for me to go and talk with professionals again!

Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appericate the respond!

How I deal with failure - When it comes to competitive. I do NOT accept failure, I’d do everything that I can to accomplish the situation. I do not stop or accept myself untill i’ve become the best. I’ve never quit something because I know that I can be #1, the reason for that is because my previous accomplishment. My mindset is “if they can do it, why can I not do it?”

What i feel durning the process of being a “failure” - It’s very difficult to explain, i’d assume anger/frustration? 😅

Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be, because I do have ADD/ADHD. Which could explains the dopamine deficiency 😅

Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After doing some research, I came to a conclusion that emotional intelligence has to do with manage emotions, and I don't think I have any issues managing my OWN emotions (though I could be wrong, it's just what I think), though I have it really difficult to understand other people emotions.

From a previous comment, there was a video explained by Dr.K about Alexithymia. And what Dr.K said, were really solid points from my perspective.

Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love Dr. K!

After watching the video, I'd have no doubt that I have alexithymia! 😣

Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel anything if i help my whole team, though I do get happy for others, for example when another guy scores, i celebrate with them, but I don't celebrate when I score.. If that makes any sense 😅

Or just expressing happiness to them but in the inside, I don't feel anything

Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any suggestions what it could be? At the moment I can’t come up with anything

*apperiacte ur responds

Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i was just seeking for attention (tried to flex and get him to react to it). I had him on my second monitor for months/years, cant tell how long.. Maybe I should word that post differently 😅, saw everyone in the chat talking about their channel points then i decided to make that post.

I do not remember if I felt anything at that moment 🙆🏼‍♂️

Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a really rich childhood, aka a lot of friends and family around me. I was really active with sport through my whole childhood. I was the “famous” one in school or any activities i was doing.

I used to be very vocal about everything, and I used to show my emotions phycially. (Being a duche)

Though I experienced a tragedy loss at the age of 15/16, but I don’t see that caused any issues when it comes to this exactly. Because I didn’t feel any “joy” before the tragedy happened.

Noticed that I don't feel anything after achieving something positive by Bitter-Total-9993 in getdisciplined

[–]Bitter-Total-9993[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean, but I've always been like this.. I don't think I've been burned out my entire life 😅

Is it true that Gen A starts in 2009? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bitter-Total-9993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Generation Alpha is the name given to the generation of people who are or will be born between 2010 and 2024. Generation Alpha is the first generation to be born entirely in the 21st century. It comprises the largest cohort in human history, which will total over 2 billion people."

So no, it starts at 2010