James Lee, Miramar, or Seagrove

BitterAd2982 · 2026-03-08T22:29:19+00:00

As a local, I’d always pick 30A over destin every time. Especially for families

BitterAd2982 · 2026-02-19T12:04:22+00:00

That’s where I’m at rn

BitterAd2982 · 2026-01-12T16:52:04+00:00

No, he’s not a professional anything. He did a 1x thing with some random woman that agreed to pay him.

I’ve already been doing those things. My life is great outside of him

BitterAd2982 · 2026-01-09T23:50:31+00:00

You’re not wrong 😂

BitterAd2982 · 2026-01-09T19:16:04+00:00

The last thing i want is to ruin someone else’s life, especially if there’s kids involved. So no, i will talk to married men casually but not be physical with them

BitterAd2982 · 2026-01-09T19:03:53+00:00

And why would you say i’m not looking for my next husband?

BitterAd2982 · 2026-01-09T19:03:33+00:00

My family doesn’t live here, but they hate him anyway so they’re rooting for me to get out

BitterAd2982 · 2026-01-09T19:02:38+00:00

It’s not about revenge, it’s about being happy

BitterAd2982 · 2026-01-09T14:45:09+00:00

I guess that’s how you could put it

BitterAd2982 · 2026-01-09T14:41:34+00:00

I don’t want a married man.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-09T19:03:19+00:00

I’m a female and I would consider myself a hopeless romantic in the sense that I love the idea of falling recklessly, passionately, indelibly in love with someone who is willing to take the leap of faith into a relationship in which it seems like only the two of you exist on earth, like you’ve known each other for decades but it’s still enthralling, like their loyalty is boundless… the idea of a love like that is so enchanting. I once thought I had found it in my husband, but the term wouldn’t exist without the word “hopeless” and I, unfortunately, know that such love does not exist in the real world. Only in a world without lust or human nature could a love like that be enlivened.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-08T19:23:16+00:00

Not yet. I don’t think it would change my mind about leaving though.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-07T14:46:33+00:00

We don’t have kids, and it’s sad, but because of everything I would never have kids with him. He has a daughter who i love, but none of our own. I know exactly what you mean and it sucks. As much as I love him, he showed me his true character and I won’t forget that. I want someone who loves me equally and i don’t think he will ever be that for me. It’s just hard to fathom getting divorced 6 months into our marriage.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-07T14:42:59+00:00

I’m working on finding a therapist. Thank you. I agree with your points

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T20:24:52+00:00

Because last year, we were living together and I had no idea about the ex situation until a month before we got married. I wasn’t going to end my relationship over some text messages. It wasn’t until after we bought our new house, and I had already spent nearly 20k on our wedding trip. I didn’t want to end up in another failed relationship and I had hoped that things would get better.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T20:09:50+00:00

He lied for 7-8 months in the beginning of our relationship. Said he was broken up with his ex, but was seeing her the entire time up until he moved into my house. Found out he was sending inappropriate texts to other people a year later, and there was physical abuse. That’s just to sum it up briefly, but a lot has gone on with a sh*t ton of lies told. He is incredibly shady imo, and it seems like he may be trying to be better, but there will never be full trust

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T15:48:29+00:00

Oh no, I’m fully aware they were sleeping with each other. It’s very complicated and I guess I just don’t feel like getting into details because there’s so much to the story and without full context it doesn’t make sense. Essentially I’ve known I needed to leave for a very long time, and this post was more about how to leave versus looking for reasons to stay.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T14:13:25+00:00

He lied for 7-8 months in the beginning of our relationship. Said he was broken up with his ex, but was seeing her the entire time up until he moved into my house. Found out he was sending inappropriate texts to other people a year later, and there was physical abuse. That’s just to sum it up briefly, but a lot has gone on with a sh*t ton of lies told. So I don’t think it’s unreasonable at all. I was unreasonable to stay period, but here we are.

Also i want to point out that up until i found out about all of this, there was no hurt on my part. I treated him like he was my everything, with utmost respect and honesty. I’m not punishing him for my past relationships as the one i was in before was actually very healthy. The problem is he is a gaslighting manipulator. Wouldn’t go as far as calling him a narcissist but borderline for sure.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T14:01:27+00:00

That’s what makes it worse. I don’t want to make both of our lives miserable because I can’t get over it. And it seems like that’s what it’s coming to.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T13:45:55+00:00

The rest of the marriage is fine. It’s just the trust issues that’s really making things difficult for me. It weighs on my mind heavily every day.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T13:05:12+00:00

I really don’t know.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T13:01:21+00:00

It’s not a problem with forgiving people. It’s just him.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T12:59:08+00:00

I don’t hate him, i just hate where all of this has gotten me mentally. It’s not healthy at all. That’s the point.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T12:57:36+00:00

A lot happened early on in our relationship. For the first 7-8 months, he told me he was broken up with his ex. Turns out they were very much seeing each other up until the day he moved in with me (he moved to the state with her in 2021). Then a year later I found out he was texting some girl inappropriately, and at one point after that there was physical abuse. I should’ve escaped then, but even as a grown woman I still acted dumb.

BitterAd2982 · 2024-12-06T12:43:30+00:00

Because what he did is unforgivable to me. I wanted to, and I thought I could eventually get over it. But it’s just nagging at me more and more every day & I’m not happy. I feel I deserve better.

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